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brettlou
Over 90 days ago
Male, 30
Female, 30
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Quote by ajsydney
lol Billy. We'll be on the edge of our seats in anticipation.
In other news... I dunno why anyone would "get in trouble" for mentioning other sites. RHP & AMM are mentioned in the forums and in chat all the time. Big deal...
There must be some real insecurities involved on the part of whoever is in charge of the place if they banned people for even the mention of other swinging sites from Australia...and let's face it, most of us are members of all 3 anyway. We are.
Was making the point (tongue in cheek) that the rules are blurred aj .
We all know the other sites ;)
Quote by timboWill I get in trouble if I ask which site?
I have noticed a large number of couples from here all joining another site in the last month or so
No, but I will for saying and that's a fair rule.
We are happy to play by the rules, however as G&G pointed out the rules here are blurred by personal opinion.
Such a shame as this place has so many good points.
Cheers
I fear this thread may be next.
Thanks for the news ld.
Well one more reason not to log on.
While not defending the reason for the ban (if it is), the loss of tt to this place is a tragedy.
When you see all the little things that drive people away from this place, and the behaviour of many on this site, the loss of a genuine, intelligent and funny couple like tt is massive. One of the few parts of SH we enjoy is reading the forum of which tt have been a huge part. With them gone and the increasing annoying posts by a small number of foolish single males on the forum leaves little interest for us. Look at some of the clowns that post rude and obscene comments on profiles with no recourse. Please don't tell me to report it. This is something, as with other site issues, that requires action from the top. Why the hell should we need to report the bleeding obvious. I can think of one individual and I have lost count of how many time this same fool pops up on peoples profile with a stupid comment. I won't name names, and yes he is still here. One of the many unfortunately. As well as some of the issues raised on here by genuine people over the time we have been on this site without resolution. tt have been one of the best voices of reason for change, in general they do it in a polite and sometimes hilarious way. For one issue to lead to there ban is outrageous, if that is the case. Take away the time wasters, friend collectors, people that will never meet up, the list goes on, leaves a small group of genuine people that are the core of this site. TT were a part of that group. Imagine if we lost a GoodandGreedy , twonewbies, baycouple or lonelydad to name a few. What would be left ?
Farewell tt and all the best.
You will be sorely missed by us and a huge loss to this site. :sad:
Mr B.
Hey guys.
We have had some experience with small group parties, we have them at a nice motel rather than home which means we have to be a bit organised as we have to take everything ourselves but worth the effort.
The main things we try to achieve is setting the right mood with good music and a comfy yet sexy atmosphere.
Food is also important (although can be a challenge... no eggs, garlic or poppyseeds) and we always ask if anyone coming along has any food related allergies.
A good variety of finger food and both alcoholic and non alcoholic drinks.
We always ask what people drink and supply everything for our guests.
Towels, as we get a room with a nice big spa, you need plenty of warm fluffy towels.
The spa is a great way for everyone to get comfy and get to know each other.
It is also a good way to introduce some light play and a good environment for people to talk over what they want from the evening.
We also provide a variety of condoms, lube, candles (around the spa), eskies for the drinks (you don't want people getting out every time they want a drink). Have the food and drink easy for people to access. Bottle openers, wine glasses and all the little things you learn you need after throwing one of these parties.
Let everyone know the party rules if you have any and have good clear understanding of their personal rules.
The most important thing of all is to choose your guests wisely.
You can do everything perfect, yet without the right guests it can be a disaster.
We have found a good mix of experience levels works well. The more experienced couples are invaluable in helping to make everyone comfy as they have seen it all before. They also tend to get the naughty side of the evening going and are fantastic conversationalist due to their experience.
Talk to those you are thinking of inviting to see if everyone will get along, not an easy task but well worth the time. In general we like to have everyone within a ten or so year age group. You would think it easy to find people to come along, unfortunately its not. Getting people all free and willing on a particular date can be a nightmare. For this reason we tend to set the date and send invites out ten or twelve weeks before the party. This allows people to organise baby sitters or just not double book the night with another event. It also seems to prevent people from last minute cancellations.
In short, good food, drink and setting. Supply as much as you can for your guests and take time choosing your guests.
This may sound ridiculous, but we found keeping a book quite helpful (and Mrs is a bit OCD). What to take etc, and a list of who we invite (and the ones not interested) and what we would do or not do differently next time.
Be the best host you can and give equal attention to everyone.
We could go on and on, but this just an idea of how we approach it.
All the best with it, get it right and it will be the first of many as a small group can generate something the bigger commercial parties can never match.
We have been really fortunate to have met some really great people (and shock to us... they keep cuming back 
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Have fun
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Have fun Not sure if anyone has been watching Swinger Wives on Discovery Health (FOXTEL).
Anyhow, it has been on at 8:30 wed nights but was not on last night.
I have tried without luck to find out if it was the end of season or it has been axed.
Its a bit of nonsense, but we enjoyed the show.
Anyone know what happened ? :sad:
Quote by TemptedTwo
Whilst single guys are the worst offenders for this, it's worth putting out a thank-you to all the good single guys who never come to your attention because they have read your profile and followed your wishes by not contacting you.
We have also found that even among couples, it's extremely rare to find anyone who treats this whole game as anything more than a business transaction. They just want to find someone who looks hot, then arrange a meeting to get their rocks off.
*sighs* It seems few people appreciate the art of seduction.
That's a great description of reality.
*sighs* with the same frustration.
Dodgy ?
Oh, I don't know about that, Smokey.
It may be true.
We have a few of these from single males so it must be true.
The best part is the description of the Fuck Buddy.
All awesome looking girls, size 8 or 10, and most incredible all with huge breasts.
They all love sex and are willing to please.
Now, I may be wrong, but they sound like a great candidate for a GIRL FRIEND !
Then again, with access to the land of the Fuck Buddy who needs a girl friend.
Seems to be a popular thing for many single males to have a Fuck Buddy.
They send you a msg saying that they have this magical Fuck Buddy willing to do anything you like.
No pic of said Fuck Buddy, no name of mysterious Fuck Buddy and still listed as single male.
We even have some dude in the lets meet up section trying to" pimp out" his Fuck buddy.
So, if our profile says no single males, no probs, just say you have a "Fuck Buddy"
Maybe if I say Fuck Buddy enough, I will actually start to believe she is real.
Just an observation.
