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Is it just us or have the cams lost some of their umm female quality, we used to come to this site and see many couples online putting on a show on cam but of late there are very few, more guys and also more Cpl cams with no females in sight ever. Anyone else notice this.
Quote by coasties2
Is it just us or have the cams lost some of their umm female quality, we used to come to this site and see many couples online putting on a show on cam but of late there are very few, more guys and also more Cpl cams with no females in sight ever. Anyone else notice this.

Notice....Yes. Probably a good reason for it as well. Mrs Bay's experiences on cam have been less than respectful. Rather than directing in the main room they resort to directing in PM or make rather crude comments. Yes understandably this is a Swingers Site but that doesn't mean people ignore proper etiquette and act like a tool.
the cams are the candy to all the singles here for quick thrills , it is well accepted that the comments and the behavors of many directing and messaging cammers have caused many of the ladies to abandon camming . this may well be the same thing that moves the dickheads on exactly as it attracted them in the first place . i have no idea how admin see,s or considers this senario , it does however after many years here appear cyclic theres always new couples and ladies to fill in for the drop off . we cammed a few times but never again even if we are just chatting and watching tv guys still make offensive comments or offers degrading one of both of us so why hav the grief and cam block is only talk around here so i guess thick skin combats thick heads
Admin - all the more reason to bring in the long awaited cam block feature that's been promised for nearly 2 years.
Waiting 2 years for a promised feature?? And I thought Napthine was bad :giggle:
Quote by GoodandGreedy
Admin - all the more reason to bring in the long awaited cam block feature that's been promised for nearly 2 years.

to add further insult to this. . There are many nights when you can't gat into your favourite room because all the free members of this site are in the room.
Paid members (extras) can't get any preference and have to stay out.
The times we have cammed we have been bombarded with comments so we hand pick select viewers and take it to a private room.
Least to say we have decided to stop camming..
Mrs W wont go on cam anymore because of one DH who told her she look like mutton dressed as lamb, some of the single males on this site hav no respect for the ladies on cam with there rude and crude comments, they think because this is a swingers site the ladies can be spoken to like sluts, well not my mrs .
We don't cam because it is too damn cold in Tassie. So we prefer to have people join us in the bedroom
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Mrs W wont go on cam anymore because of one DH who told her she look like mutton dressed as lamb

Wow, harsh!
We had a look at your profile, and have no idea where that comment would have come from, Wanderers. Comment certainly not deserved from what we can see of your pics.
Cheers,
A & J
P.S. Hey Trousers, don't you just make a camp fire in the middle of your loungeroom like all the other Tasmanians?
Oh. Hang on. I might be getting my parts of Australia confused. As you were...
Mrs Wanderer, don't take any notice of that cretin. If you're mutton, I'd like some. (I know you're not interested in single guys - just making a point. You're gorgeous)
yep, rude assshats (not all of them solo guys) caused every girl that I know to stop camming. Bring on the block button. Even sittting in front of the cam, fully clothed, doing nothing but typing, all I get are nasty comments in PM asking me to do various things, in the nude, on cam. This is why I no longer cam
Quote by Trousers_Magee
We don't cam because it is too damn cold in Tassie. So we prefer to have people join us in the bedroom

Oh Trousers,
If you are the traveling kind and its too cold in Tassie, we have a warm spot for you.
ANY TIME !!!!
Quote by GoodandGreedy
Admin - all the more reason to bring in the long awaited cam block feature that's been promised for nearly 2 years.

It is coming, we have it working like that on swingingheaven.ca, now we need to roll out the new framework across the other sites, were doing the quieter ones first in order to sort out any bugs, Kiwi should go live next week, then Ireland after that, then here smile
Quote by brettlou
We don't cam because it is too damn cold in Tassie. So we prefer to have people join us in the bedroom

Oh Trousers,
If you are the traveling kind and its too cold in Tassie, we have a warm spot for you.
ANY TIME !!!!
I'd love an invite to that party pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease xx
Quote by GoodandGreedy
We don't cam because it is too damn cold in Tassie. So we prefer to have people join us in the bedroom

Oh Trousers,
If you are the traveling kind and its too cold in Tassie, we have a warm spot for you.
ANY TIME !!!!
I'd love an invite to that party pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease xx
We like warm spots. And we are so going to party again greedy
Quote by coasties2
Is it just us or have the cams lost some of their umm female quality, we used to come to this site and see many couples online putting on a show on cam but of late there are very few, more guys and also more Cpl cams with no females in sight ever. Anyone else notice this.

Totally agree....the same couple profiles with no female ever are so common now and they are normally old fat guys too. I personally wish there was some way to vote to have them removed.
Also, yeah, the cam quality has dropped remarkably over the last few years.
Quote by heartman
Is it just us or have the cams lost some of their umm female quality, we used to come to this site and see many couples online putting on a show on cam but of late there are very few, more guys and also more Cpl cams with no females in sight ever. Anyone else notice this.

Totally agree....the same couple profiles with no female ever are so common now and they are normally old fat guys too. I personally wish there was some way to vote to have them removed.
Also, yeah, the cam quality has dropped remarkably over the last few years.
How disappointing to read these posts, we cam fairly regularly and have never had anything but good positive comments. We tended to get bombarded with whispers in the early days. We have used the tools now so we are asked if we want to accept whispers. Sometimes we miss our friends request to whisper unfortunately. We get lots of directing requests, but that's all part of the fun, some we oblige, others we don't. We also enjoy watching other couples and singles cams and find them to very sexy, we have our favourites lol . We find this site to be well managed and the people are all very respectful. (hope this isn't a red flag to all the abusers out there ) There are some singles pretending to be couples, but you tend to find out who they are fairly quickly. Just though we would post some positive to this post. Hope all those who have decided not to cam anymore reconsider, its much to much good fun to give it away
Cheers
Baz and Jene
Quote by coasties2
Is it just us or have the cams lost some of their umm female quality, we used to come to this site and see many couples online putting on a show on cam but of late there are very few, more guys and also more Cpl cams with no females in sight ever. Anyone else notice this.

My mrs likes to get on cam unfortunately we find it hard to get on cam together with our kids here which is why i am on in the daytime when no one is home and the mrs is on at night when she tells the kids she is going to watch a "movie" lol.
We have had a few extremely rude people but most of the genuine people are beautiful and great to talk to even though im not much of a talker.
Cant wait for the block button and i also don't like that free members take most of the room chat rooms and paying members have to wait until a free member decides to leave because there are no tits on show. If a paying member wants to join one of the free members should lose their spot in the room.
Anyway sorry if people get bored of seeing me on cam and not the mrs...thing is i dont get hassled lol
Free accounts can access the chat room?
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Is it just us or have the cams lost some of their umm female quality, we used to come to this site and see many couples online putting on a show on cam but of late there are very few, more guys and also more Cpl cams with no females in sight ever. Anyone else notice this.

My mrs likes to get on cam unfortunately we find it hard to get on cam together with our kids here which is why i am on in the daytime when no one is home and the mrs is on at night when she tells the kids she is going to watch a "movie" lol.
We have had a few extremely rude people but most of the genuine people are beautiful and great to talk to even though im not much of a talker.
Cant wait for the block button and i also don't like that free members take most of the room chat rooms and paying members have to wait until a free member decides to leave because there are no tits on show. If a paying member wants to join one of the free members should lose their spot in the room.
Anyway sorry if people get bored of seeing me on cam and not the mrs...thing is i dont get hassled lol
Would you be talking about the 25 thousand, free members, who joined the site, the first year of chat, and got rewarded with life membership? as most folks from that point, have had to pay to use chat.
we have been here since it was promoted as free management kept to their word and allowed us old members to stay free, in support of the site we still buy a membership anyways , i guess its hard to tell whos free and whos really free.
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Is it just us or have the cams lost some of their umm female quality, we used to come to this site and see many couples online putting on a show on cam but of late there are very few, more guys and also more Cpl cams with no females in sight ever. Anyone else notice this.

My mrs likes to get on cam unfortunately we find it hard to get on cam together with our kids here which is why i am on in the daytime when no one is home and the mrs is on at night when she tells the kids she is going to watch a "movie" lol.
We have had a few extremely rude people but most of the genuine people are beautiful and great to talk to even though im not much of a talker.
Cant wait for the block button and i also don't like that free members take most of the room chat rooms and paying members have to wait until a free member decides to leave because there are no tits on show. If a paying member wants to join one of the free members should lose their spot in the room.
Anyway sorry if people get bored of seeing me on cam and not the mrs...thing is i dont get hassled lol
Would you be talking about the 25 thousand, free members, who joined the site, the first year of chat, and got rewarded with life membership? as most folks from that point, have had to pay to use chat.
no i wasnt, i realize they were here a long time before me .. I stand corrected though as i thought free members where allowed into chat....must just be all the singles clogging it up then??
Runs back to hide in a corner
Quote by wewannadou
Is it just us or have the cams lost some of their umm female quality, we used to come to this site and see many couples online putting on a show on cam but of late there are very few, more guys and also more Cpl cams with no females in sight ever. Anyone else notice this.

My mrs likes to get on cam unfortunately we find it hard to get on cam together with our kids here which is why i am on in the daytime when no one is home and the mrs is on at night when she tells the kids she is going to watch a "movie" lol.
We have had a few extremely rude people but most of the genuine people are beautiful and great to talk to even though im not much of a talker.
Cant wait for the block button and i also don't like that free members take most of the room chat rooms and paying members have to wait until a free member decides to leave because there are no tits on show. If a paying member wants to join one of the free members should lose their spot in the room.
Anyway sorry if people get bored of seeing me on cam and not the mrs...thing is i dont get hassled lol
Would you be talking about the 25 thousand, free members, who joined the site, the first year of chat, and got rewarded with life membership? as most folks from that point, have had to pay to use chat.
no i wasnt, i realize they were here a long time before me .. I stand corrected though as i thought free members where allowed into chat....must just be all the singles clogging it up then??
Runs back to hide in a corner
Just so you know... admin doesnt count them as singles... but as solos. smile be it male, female. Doesnt always mean they are single. Many solos, do in fact, have partners, be it FB or husband or wife, well you get the jist. They just dont use the site together. For many different reasons. Then you do have that percentage, who do have partners and such but yes, the old, i dont get sex enough at home. Is normally the comment i hear. What percentage are truly single. No idea. All i can say, is look at all solo profiles, specially if they whispers. :) And check and see what the um status is :) Good luck :)
As for the rest. I have sent admin this thread as feedback. :)
singles: they even called single profiles, male or female so unless rose wants to re write the search program we should just stick to the facts not manufacture some story
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singles: they even called single profiles, male or female so unless rose wants to re write the search program we should just stick to the facts not manufacture some story

We got told in the beginning, not to call them single profiles. They are solo profiles.
And that came from the owner of the site...
No story telling..
Your welcome to ask him, about that, Im sure I have pointed that out to you more then once.
here it is right out of print from the search page on this very site , "e.g. if you are a straight single male check the "straight single male" box to see members who would be interested in meeting you." just because you keep saying it doesnt make it right, and my mum added " if they told you to play on the road would you ?"
Hahaha some people should play on the road.
We love to get on and cam. We haven't had the unfortunate pleasure of getting abusive comments from watchers, they have always been very positive and a joy to read after. All we know is we get very aroused thinking about getting on cam, we get very hot while on cam and after is some of the best sex we have ever had. So we will be happy to keep getting on cam for everyone's pleasure and ours.