Warming the Bed
Is this a site for swingers to meet and play or just a chat site ?????
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Sex God
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Is this a site for swingers to meet and play or just a chat site ?????
Seems more of a chat site of late , no real commitments by others to meet other than at meet and greets . What ever happened to getting in touch with someone arrange a meet and if you hit it off you have some fun
I have seen on a few profiles that they will only chat before they meet, myself let's have a coffee and see what happens.
At the moment I can chat, but when I'm on the road that drops off the list because of more important things.
That's my 2 bobs worth,
I am who I am and that's it, sorry if I'm the square peg that won't go into the round hole.
Sex God
While having a chat on here or exchanging a few messages between others is a good start there still is that lack of commitment to take the next step and meet some one else , nothing says you have to swing on the first meet but you get a pretty good idea off the bat if someone is compatable or not to take things further when you meet them face to face rather than on a computer
Think some are scared to get out from behind the keyboard and meet others as its nothing more than fantasy they are scared will become reality
Orgasminator
weve met quite a few couples off here, had a few that just chat. had lots that just friend you and never meet. had some great times and also met some who id rather forget.
we chat to people first because we like to know a bit about you. i check the forums to see what youve posted. it shows some degree of the real you. we dont just come here to jump into everybodies bed.
Warming the Bed
Hey Guys.
yes we totally agree about chat meet etc, its just disheartening that the last 3 meets we have organized with couples to meet for coffee dinner etc (as we say in our profile) before it progresses to the bedroom, have been keyboard warriors, fake couples, and or something has come up. sorry for the vent.
Also in saying that we have found some awesome couples, single girls and single guys which have become goood playfriends and or awesome friends.
and as for the single guys, dont single them out they rock.
Didn't mean to single out single guys in that context...we have met some great single guys from the chat room. One in particular has become a very good friend. Am so sick of single guys however who turn out to be married and cheating on their partners. Sorry won't go there, same with playmates who want to use our place to meet but don't swing.
We like to get to know people through chatting first; it doesn't take too long to figure out who the keyboard warriors, fakes etc. are. We also find feedback from others in the chat room to be of great help. If we can't cam with interested swingers to check their bona fide then forget it.
At the end of the day if there is no physical/intellectual attraction we will not be interested in meeting up. We have built up a small trustworthy group through being honest, careful and respectful. Unfortunately the prospect of sex brings out the very worst in some people.
Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we will swing with anyone...and that's just not a thought but reality.
Orgasminator
Quote by taylah2805
Just because we are swingers doesn't mean we will swing with anyone...and that's just not a thought but reality.
this is so true. swinging doesnt mean your easy.
Orgasminator
really? that seems to be common consensus of the guys that message me. 'You're on a sex site, you must be a slut. Why won't you fuck me, you whore' or common variations thereof. This is why I rarely bother meeting anyone I haven't spoken extensively to in the chatroom. And, yeah, I know - slightly bitter here
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really? that seems to be common consensus of the guys that message me. 'You're on a sex site, you must be a slut. Why won't you fuck me, you whore' or common variations thereof.
Sounds familiar!!! Why can"t people accept "not interested thank you". Accept it and move on, no need for insults!
The mindset of some people is truly amazing
Sex God
interesting point about web cams not every one has one and that includes us and we have met many great people over the years all without using a web cam
Orgasminator
haidee?? bitter??? never lol i dont know single women could put up with some of the shit. what mrs two gets is bad enough but being single would make it so hard. my hats off to you and my pants when required 
i feel the world has lost common courtesy
i feel the world has lost common courtesy Orgasminator
Mr T, then there ae the guys like you (and a couple others) that make me not want to blow up the human race and start again 
I think I will possibly stick around al ittle longer :)
I think I will possibly stick around al ittle longer :) 
Orgasminator
shucks haidee, ill apply honey to my body so we can stick together
Orgasminator
add some chocolate syrup and I won't need a spoon
Orgasminator
runs to the shop for choc topping, ice magic, hundreds and thousands and a roll of plastic to contain the mess
Sex God
choc kaluha body sauce is on offer
Orgasminator
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Oh, now the cling wrap has just turned a perfectly good food fantasy into something considerably more kinky!
I approve totally. ;)
Thank you madame ( gracious bow)
Orgasminator
While you're down there Mr Two.............. 
Sexpert
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runs to the shop for choc topping, ice magic, hundreds and thousands and a roll of plastic to contain the mess
Sounds like someone's a serial killer to me... lol
Orgasminator
lol greedy, big lick for you.
aj shhhh telling my secrets like that
Orgasminator
Brettlou, bowing or on your knees is very welcome
