I think it's possible for swingers to go through phases if you will. At first
it's exciting to meet someone and just jump in bed, then that gets boring and
you look for more. It sounds to me as if they have found a possibly perfect
candidate for the game they are enjoying now. Sounds like a win-win situation
to me.
And, yeah, keep us updated. Curious minds want to know.
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haarley
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 62
Bisexual Female, 62
0 km · New South Wales
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Hello everyone, my wife and have never swung or introduced another person to our sexual relationship yet. We have talked about the risks and the advantages several times. The real big question we have is what happens the very next day after your first time? Do you feel auckward, and if we do, how do overcome the auckwardness? We are very interested in the swinging lifestyle, swapping and threesome!! You just never really know as a couple how the response will be in our marrige the following day when real life kicks back in and we have to make dinner, pay bills!!!
Haarley
Talking about each others fantasies is a good start,for us we were both unsure about the whole deal & with her she felt that there would be some kind of bad stigma placed on her, making her a bad person,i suspect that alot of people feel this way.
we had the same deal as you described where when we were having sex she loved the idea & it really turned her on but afterwards she wasnt so sure,what we did was we agreed that each of us could have another partner if the chance arose to experiment with the whole idea & for her to see how she felt after having out of the marrige sex.
To make a long story short she found a man that she liked & with my blessing spent the evening with him,when she came home she was nervous but after seeing that my reaction wasnt anger or jealousy then the whole idea she had of her being dirty or a bad person went out the window,after that it became a natural part of our live's.
Haarley
