I think it's possible for swingers to go through phases if you will. At first
it's exciting to meet someone and just jump in bed, then that gets boring and
you look for more. It sounds to me as if they have found a possibly perfect
candidate for the game they are enjoying now. Sounds like a win-win situation
to me.
And, yeah, keep us updated. Curious minds want to know.
I think I can understand your feeling. I think you will build a strong erotic
energy force by postsponding. Once you both feel the same desire, the
excitment is higher.
Johalber
I also like my sex with a little spice, but wouldn't going to such great, rather romantic lengths be seriously exposing your relationship to potential disaster?
Seems to me that a lady that is wooed (?) in such a romantic way could easily 'fall in love'?
Taylar