I must admit I am guilty of knocking back a woman for sex.
Only twice has it happened to me in a 100% normal straight situation (when we were in the swinging / nudist scene it happened often and going back then none of the women got a knock back from me).
The last time we were on a cruise ship, I got into a lift and their were three women in the lift and they came on real strong with one of the women asking me straight out if I was up for a quick fuck, promising me the time of my life, a god time that I would tell everyone about, then looking at my left hand and seeing my wedding ring added "except your wife", decisions decisions, no it was not really hard, I was on my way to meet the wife to go to a show, I knew she would not approve of it and I was playing it pretty straight with her "at the time", plus being confined on a ship with a woman you had fucked could become a bit confronting and dangerous if things went wrong.
I would say that the woman were having some sort of a bet as to who could get fucked first or maybe the most fucks in the night, how many other guys had they fucked (not that I am against silky seconds in fact I love them under the right circumstances) but I just thought NO, I must admit it was one of the few times discretion got the better of me!
We arrived at my level and I told them "thank's but no thank's" with some regret and left the lift.
As someone said earlier in this forum, one you knock back is one you will never catch up on, but!!!
Rick.
We were members of Kiata where we would go and stay 2 or 3 weeks at a time on holidays with friends, their were a lot of good looking naked men and women there most of the time.
But us guys still looked forward to the shopping trips into Windsor where it was sexy fun perving on dressed women,work that one out?
Rick.
Any one cruising the Pacific Jewel Retreat to Isle of Pines
Sydney, Isle Of Pines, Lifou, Vila, Sydney
9 Nights: 09 Dec 2013 - 18 Dec?
We are a married couple (close to 50 years married) and have been playing with others for over 30 of the close to 50 years we have been married on and off.
I am the main participant in the chat room, my wife knows I often come in here and she comes in the chat room now and then when she is in the mood for it (she never shows her face in the general room but will if she goes private with a guy), she will often put on a show when on cam for the guys, she gets a good reception from them.
I don't feel guilty being in the room by myself under the couples banner at all, if you could change from single to married easy enough I would do it when I am in the room by myself, but that is not an option, if I am in the room and the wife wants to join me she just comes on cam with me no problem at all.
PS their are a lot of married guys who come in the chat room as single guys as well :twisted:
The couple exposing them selvs to you I think?
The 'even better when it's your wife' is the bit that gets me in.
I took my wife's cherry when we were 19, we married at 21, we joined a nudist club when we were early 30's and soon found out that their was an underground swinging movement at the club, I tried and tried to talk the wife into going with another guy and she eventually gave in, we were 35 and married 15 years when she went with her first ever guy, that opened arms (and legs) for us to join in with the other swingers at the club and elsewhere.
After a few years of swinging we went down the M F M threesome and her being a hot wife with other guys path, I love watching her with other guys and joining in, 'love my silky seconds', we have now been married over 45 years and are still very much in love. She is still a good teaser and I get her on cam now and then in the chat room as some of you would know. She says we are too old to be playing with others these days but there is always hope that the right guy will come along.
I would not call it cuckolding as I get immense pleasure out of seeing her with other guys and she enjoys it as well, there is no putting down about it involved, just good sexy fun.
Rick_Salt.
Re Yes happened with me, was invited to a friends and he had 5 mates over. I turned out to be the entertainment!! I loved it!!
Would love to hear more, did you know it was on when you went to your friends place, how did it get started and were condoms used?
Rick_Salt.
:twisted: If it feels good than do it. :twisted:
[quote="wi11ie"]How do guys feel about licking pussy after a guy has cum in it?
I personally love going down and doing the cleaning up after my wife has been with other guys, the best cocktail of love juices I have ever had, better still if the other guy is into the same, we can go all night long cleaning up after each other, any women interested in trying it give me a call lol .
As for going down on her after I have cum in her I find I usually lose the urge to do it straight away but if we are in for a long session I usually end up doing it.
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I would not say bored with swinging, but we started swinging mid 70's and were going hard at it for 5 or 6 years going to parties most weekends 'we were in a swinging nudist club at the time', then family commitments and circumstances changed and we had to drop out.
A couple of years later we were ready to get back into it again but found the whole scene had changed, we were spending more time meeting would be swingers and time wasters than actually swinging which was very frustrating, so we decided to go down the M F M threesome road, their was no shortage of willing guys and I loved to watch and go silky seconds. It did not stop us swinging if the right situation came along in fact some interesting combinations came along over time.
I cannot get into the chat room again, just a washed out screen that will not let me in?
I have loged in and out a couple of times but no good???
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YES,
You explore so much more sexually when you are into swinging, but having said that the best sex I have ever had is with my wife, but all the other women have been fun as well and we both get a kick out of M F M threesomes.
I can only talk from our own experience, we had joined a nudist club where we soon found out their was an underground swinging movement, we talked about it but I never thought I would get my wife into it, she was a very conservative strict Catholic girl (I thought I had done very well just getting her to join the nudist club).
I kept bringing up swinging at every opportunity without harping on it too much, and I kept putting opportunities in front of her but always leaving her a way out 'it was very frustrating at times I can tell you' and I never got upset when she did decided not to take them up 'we were so close at times'!
You do have to take in account that I was the only guy she had been with, I took her cherry when she was 19.
You can read the whole story of her first time in another of my postings.
(Briefly) We were at a party and I was called away urgently to work, instead of taking the wife home I arranged for a friend of ours Joe to give her a lift home from the party telling them to have a good time as I left.
Next morning when I arrived home she told me that she had been a naughty girl last night with Joe, I replied that a bit of a kiss and cuddle never hurt anyone, and she replied 'it was more than a kiss and a cuddle', I barred up then and there and took her to bed and made love to her while she told me every little detail of what happened and WOW it was hot, we were on perpetual heat, touching each other up and having sex all the time.
Two days later after a couple of phone calls Joe and his partner visited us and we were all soon in the bedroom playing, my wife insisted on guiding my cock into Joes partner just to show that their were no hard feelings, that opened the door to swinging, swapping and M F M threesomes for us, and we were welcome with open arms and legs when the news got out amongst the swingers at the nudist club, we were fresh blood, we were 35 and had been married 15 years.
I had no idea just how big a Pandora's box I had opened, she took to the lifestyle like a duck to water, at times she had me biting my tongue with some of the antics she got up to but I (we) loved it, no regrets what so ever.
We have now been married over 45 years and are still very much in love.
Sounds good to me. :twisted:
I like your idea of oldies getting together (I am 10 years older than you) what do you have in mind? :twisted: