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Rick_Salt
2 weeks ago
Straight Male, 82
0 km · Canberra

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Anyone cruising Exploria of the seas Sydney to Fiji 19-3-17

Carnival Spirit to the Islands 25-4-17?

I must admit I am guilty of knocking back a woman for sex. Only twice has it happened to me in a 100% normal straight situation (when we were in the swinging / nudist scene it happened often and going back then none of the women got a knock back from me). The last time we were on a cruise ship, I got into a lift and their were three women in the lift and they came on real strong with one of the women asking me straight out if I was up for a quick fuck, promising me the time of my life, a god time that I would tell everyone about, then looking at my left hand and seeing my wedding ring added "except your wife", decisions decisions, no it was not really hard, I was on my way to meet the wife to go to a show, I knew she would not approve of it and I was playing it pretty straight with her "at the time", plus being confined on a ship with a woman you had fucked could become a bit confronting and dangerous if things went wrong. I would say that the woman were having some sort of a bet as to who could get fucked first or maybe the most fucks in the night, how many other guys had they fucked (not that I am against silky seconds in fact I love them under the right circumstances) but I just thought NO, I must admit it was one of the few times discretion got the better of me! We arrived at my level and I told them "thank's but no thank's" with some regret and left the lift. As someone said earlier in this forum, one you knock back is one you will never catch up on, but!!! Rick.
We were members of Kiata where we would go and stay 2 or 3 weeks at a time on holidays with friends, their were a lot of good looking naked men and women there most of the time. But us guys still looked forward to the shopping trips into Windsor where it was sexy fun perving on dressed women,work that one out? Rick.
Any one cruising the Pacific Jewel Retreat to Isle of Pines Sydney, Isle Of Pines, Lifou, Vila, Sydney 9 Nights: 09 Dec 2013 - 18 Dec?
We are a married couple (close to 50 years married) and have been playing with others for over 30 of the close to 50 years we have been married on and off. I am the main participant in the chat room, my wife knows I often come in here and she comes in the chat room now and then when she is in the mood for it (she never shows her face in the general room but will if she goes private with a guy), she will often put on a show when on cam for the guys, she gets a good reception from them. I don't feel guilty being in the room by myself under the couples banner at all, if you could change from single to married easy enough I would do it when I am in the room by myself, but that is not an option, if I am in the room and the wife wants to join me she just comes on cam with me no problem at all. PS their are a lot of married guys who come in the chat room as single guys as well :twisted:
Quote by pineapple
Plenty of people commit adultery and it's impossible for them all to be male smile. Married people are perfect for a sly root as they have as much to gain and lose as you do, and are more than likely going to be a 'better root'. They're trying to recapture what they've lost or remember what they've got wink

I am with you Pineapple.
For a start we are not looking at the moment.
When we switched from swinging to M F M threesomes (Swinging just had too many hassles meeting couples where the four all got along after the initial lust wore off) plus the fact that it turned me on watching the wife going with other guys, joining in and going silky seconds 'it also turned her on having the attention of two guys'.
We started out with single guys and had a couple of regular guys we met (this was BC 'before computers') through local sex contact papers (Searchlight and Ribald), we were also getting a lot of replies from married guys after a bit on the side which we did not reply to at first.
The wife turned off one of our regular single guys who I thought was a good fuck buddy and I could not understand why as she had always enjoyed the time we spent with him, she finally told me that he was hitting on her when I was not around, ringing her up and wanting her to meet him when I was at work and such things, so he got the chop real quick.
We received a reply from a married guy who seemed OK, the wife liked the look and sound of him and she agreed to meet him. It turned out he was our best contact we had ever made, he was happy at home and just wanted a bit of sex on the side, he did not want to upset any apple carts or fall in love, just good uncomplicated sex and we had a long term relationship with him.
I must admit that it surprised me the way the wife handled it but all was good, as the wife said she preferred married guys in the long run as they had a wife to go home to, they had to look after their self health wise and were not sleeping around with any bit and he was not the only married guy we seen.
The 'even better when it's your wife' is the bit that gets me in. I took my wife's cherry when we were 19, we married at 21, we joined a nudist club when we were early 30's and soon found out that their was an underground swinging movement at the club, I tried and tried to talk the wife into going with another guy and she eventually gave in, we were 35 and married 15 years when she went with her first ever guy, that opened arms (and legs) for us to join in with the other swingers at the club and elsewhere. After a few years of swinging we went down the M F M threesome and her being a hot wife with other guys path, I love watching her with other guys and joining in, 'love my silky seconds', we have now been married over 45 years and are still very much in love. She is still a good teaser and I get her on cam now and then in the chat room as some of you would know. She says we are too old to be playing with others these days but there is always hope that the right guy will come along. I would not call it cuckolding as I get immense pleasure out of seeing her with other guys and she enjoys it as well, there is no putting down about it involved, just good sexy fun. Rick_Salt.
Re Yes happened with me, was invited to a friends and he had 5 mates over. I turned out to be the entertainment!! I loved it!! Would love to hear more, did you know it was on when you went to your friends place, how did it get started and were condoms used? Rick_Salt.
Piercing. Just a curiosity question. Yesterday the wife and I were watching a TV show on nudism and one of the guys had a Prince Albert piercing, it bought up the subject of what it would be like having sex with such a piercing or similar for the man and the women? Any guys out there have a Prince Albert or similar piercing? If so what inspired you to get it and how does it affect your sex life? Any woman had sex with a guy with a similar piercing? If so what was it like for you? Bothe the wife and I are piercing and tattoo free (my wife would not even get her ears pierced), in 30 + years of swinging, swapping and M F M threesomes we have never came across another player who was pierced except for one guy at a nudist club we belonged to, and we did not play with him. Any information would be appreciated. Rick181au. confused:
Have any women (or men) been involved in a spontaneous gangbang that has just happened because the circumstances were right at the time. My wife was in a situation like that only once, it was with three guys, would like to hear other people's experiences. hump
[quote="wi11ie"]How do guys feel about licking pussy after a guy has cum in it? I personally love going down and doing the cleaning up after my wife has been with other guys, the best cocktail of love juices I have ever had, better still if the other guy is into the same, we can go all night long cleaning up after each other, any women interested in trying it give me a call lol . As for going down on her after I have cum in her I find I usually lose the urge to do it straight away but if we are in for a long session I usually end up doing it. :twisted:
Something like this takes a lot of vetting, we know from experience, and it only takes one Dick Head to stuff it up. banghead :banghead: :banghead: :banghead:
I would not say bored with swinging, but we started swinging mid 70's and were going hard at it for 5 or 6 years going to parties most weekends 'we were in a swinging nudist club at the time', then family commitments and circumstances changed and we had to drop out. A couple of years later we were ready to get back into it again but found the whole scene had changed, we were spending more time meeting would be swingers and time wasters than actually swinging which was very frustrating, so we decided to go down the M F M threesome road, their was no shortage of willing guys and I loved to watch and go silky seconds. It did not stop us swinging if the right situation came along in fact some interesting combinations came along over time.
First off we are old school, we started swinging way back in 1975 when we were 35 and had been married 15 years, 'it was the wife's first time with another guy as I had taken her cherry when she was 19'. She had her tubes tied after our last child when we were 30 and when we started swinging at 35 we were in a nudist club where their was a lot of swinging going on, after her first time with another guy we jumped into swinging with both feet, (the wife took to it like a duck to water lol) no one even mentioned using condoms back then! Answering your questions. 1/ 35 years, all our playing life, the last time we used condoms was when we were around 19 – 20 for birth control. 2/ The wife had her tubes tied and it was the normal thing with the people we started playing with. 3/ Both sensation and psychological. 4/ All the swingers and guys we have met for M F M threesomes were up for bare back sex except one couple who requested condoms be used when we met them for the first time, but we did not go through with it with them. 5/ No. 6/ Back in the 70's and 80's all swinging parties were bare back affairs as far as we knew. A little background, when we started swinging back in the mid 70's we were at it pretty well full on for around 10 or so years, then the family and work situations changed and we dropped out except for a few close friends now and then for around five or so years. When we decided to get back into it A I D's was around so we decided to go about it with a different approach, limiting ourselves to one or two couples we could become swinging friends with and playing to them only 'condoms and protection did not even come into it'. That did not work out as we found it was hard keeping a swinging relationship going where the four of you all got along after the initial lust wore off, it was just not fun anymore! So another rethink and we decided to try M F M threesomes and her being a hot wife with other guys, I love seeing her going with other guy and going silky seconds, that worked out very well for us and that's what we stuck to 'most of the time'! As a result, 35 years of playing without protection and we have never caught an S T D, I consider we were careful 'and lucky', late 60's now so it's not a big issue with us these days, most of our playing is done on cam now and it's hard to catch an S T D playing on cam. But condoms, no way, I 'we' love the smell and taste of sex too much. Married almost 50 years and still very much in love and we still have a good sex relationship between us, and no regrets kiss. Rick181au.
I cannot get into the chat room again, just a washed out screen that will not let me in? I have loged in and out a couple of times but no good??? :twisted:
Hi walwal. I tend to agree with you as far as one of the partners ending up with the short end of the stick most times, we have seen it happen so many times with other couples we have met over the years. I think that we avoid that situation personally, fair enough it was me that bought up swinging to start off and after a lot of hard work got her involved in the lifestyle, but once we got into it she was a more than willing partner (up until her first time I was the only person she had been with) to the point she frightened me at times with what she got up to. After exploring most of the activities open to swingers 'without getting to kinky' and finding it hard to meet couples you could have long term relationships with after the initial lust wore off and not liking the prospect of going through the hassle of meeting new people all the time(so time consuming and frustrating), we leaned more so to M F M threesomes 'I love seeing her go with other guys and going silky seconds', the only thing different is we prefer married guys who we find are a lot more stable in a long term relationship, + she had a bad experience with a single guy we were seeing who got to possessive and jealous 'of me the husband in a M F M threesome situation' and wanted her to meet him behind my back, also all our sex with others is bare back sex after a health check up and we found it better to have long term stable relationships with whoever we are playing with, that's the way it still is for us, but I must admit we have slowed down to almost a stop these days, who said age will not weary them lol! But we sure have had our fun over the years, 30 + years in the lifestyle I can tell you. lol
YES,
You explore so much more sexually when you are into swinging, but having said that the best sex I have ever had is with my wife, but all the other women have been fun as well and we both get a kick out of M F M threesomes.
I can only talk from our own experience, we had joined a nudist club where we soon found out their was an underground swinging movement, we talked about it but I never thought I would get my wife into it, she was a very conservative strict Catholic girl (I thought I had done very well just getting her to join the nudist club).
I kept bringing up swinging at every opportunity without harping on it too much, and I kept putting opportunities in front of her but always leaving her a way out 'it was very frustrating at times I can tell you' and I never got upset when she did decided not to take them up 'we were so close at times'!
You do have to take in account that I was the only guy she had been with, I took her cherry when she was 19.
You can read the whole story of her first time in another of my postings.
(Briefly) We were at a party and I was called away urgently to work, instead of taking the wife home I arranged for a friend of ours Joe to give her a lift home from the party telling them to have a good time as I left.
Next morning when I arrived home she told me that she had been a naughty girl last night with Joe, I replied that a bit of a kiss and cuddle never hurt anyone, and she replied 'it was more than a kiss and a cuddle', I barred up then and there and took her to bed and made love to her while she told me every little detail of what happened and WOW it was hot, we were on perpetual heat, touching each other up and having sex all the time.
Two days later after a couple of phone calls Joe and his partner visited us and we were all soon in the bedroom playing, my wife insisted on guiding my cock into Joes partner just to show that their were no hard feelings, that opened the door to swinging, swapping and M F M threesomes for us, and we were welcome with open arms and legs when the news got out amongst the swingers at the nudist club, we were fresh blood, we were 35 and had been married 15 years.
I had no idea just how big a Pandora's box I had opened, she took to the lifestyle like a duck to water, at times she had me biting my tongue with some of the antics she got up to but I (we) loved it, no regrets what so ever.
We have now been married over 45 years and are still very much in love.
History of a hot wife! It was a bloody lot of hard work I can tell you getting my wife started. We met just before our 18th birthdays, she was a sweet innocent Catholic church going non drinking (still never touches Alcohol, everything she has done she has done stone cold sober) virgin girl, we were engaged when I took her cherry at 19, we married at 21 (her parents would not let us get married before we were 21 as they said it would not last), we had our family at 28 and 30 and she had her tubes tied after our last child, (her decision). We joined a nudist club in the early 70's where we found out their was some swinging going on, 'I was all for it' and we talked about it 'to tell the truth it was me that talked about it'! I told her that if we did it was OK by me, I kept putting opportunities in front of her but never forced the issue. In the mid 70's we were at a 100% straight party and I was called away to work, rather than drag my wife away from the party I arranged a lift home for her with a guy Joe that I knew she was keen on, and as I left I joked to them about them having fun on the way home, I trusted Joe to take NO for an answer if it came to that. Next morning when I met the wife she told me that she had been a naughty girl last night with Joe, I replied that a bit of a kiss and cuddle never hurt anyone, and she replied 'it was more than a kiss and a cuddle', I barred up then and there and took her to bed and made love to her while she told me every little detail of what happened and WOW it was hot. Two days later Joe (after a phone call) visited us with his partner, after a bit of a chat we all headed to the bedroom and the fun and games started. When it came out at the nudist club (amongst the other swingers) that we had started swinging we were welcomed with open arms 'and legs' into the fold, so we were 35 and married 15 years when she went with her first ever other guy and she took to the lifestyle like a duck to water, in fact sometimes she had me wondering just how big a Pandora's box I had opened, she had me biting my tongue at times with some of the things she got up to. Come mid 80's when the big nasty came out we refined our playing switched to M F M threesomes and her being a hot wife with other guys, all our sex has been bare back sex for about 30 years and we have never caught an S T D, we were careful 'and lucky' I know, their has been times where in the heat of the moment caution has been thrown to the wind I can tell you but it all turned out OK in the end! We are now heading to our late 60's, slacked off a lot but are still willing to play if the situation is right, we love to cam in chat rooms. We have now been married 45 + years, very much in love and still going strong, 'who said it would not last' lol. Rick181au. wink
I like your idea of oldies getting together (I am 10 years older than you) what do you have in mind? :twisted: