question for ladies about married men

8 Jun 2011

Just curious how many of you ladies would see a married man? I know all the reasons not to, and respect a womens decision not to be the "other women" Speaking as a married man who's wife has no interest, and would go ballistic if it was even mentioned to her, im just wondering if there is any chance of finding a lady who doesent mind if the guy is married or not.

12 Jun 2011

Interesting point pineapple.. I reckon you've got something there..

3 Jul 2011

Quote by pineapple
Plenty of people commit adultery and it's impossible for them all to be male . Married people are perfect for a sly root as they have as much to gain and lose as you do, and are more than likely going to be a 'better root'. They're trying to recapture what they've lost or remember what they've got

I am with you Pineapple.
For a start we are not looking at the moment.
When we switched from swinging to M F M threesomes (Swinging just had too many hassles meeting couples where the four all got along after the initial lust wore off) plus the fact that it turned me on watching the wife going with other guys, joining in and going silky seconds 'it also turned her on having the attention of two guys'.
We started out with single guys and had a couple of regular guys we met (this was BC 'before computers') through local sex contact papers (Searchlight and Ribald), we were also getting a lot of replies from married guys after a bit on the side which we did not reply to at first.
The wife turned off one of our regular single guys who I thought was a good fuck buddy and I could not understand why as she had always enjoyed the time we spent with him, she finally told me that he was hitting on her when I was not around, ringing her up and wanting her to meet him when I was at work and such things, so he got the chop real quick.
We received a reply from a married guy who seemed OK, the wife liked the look and sound of him and she agreed to meet him. It turned out he was our best contact we had ever made, he was happy at home and just wanted a bit of sex on the side, he did not want to upset any apple carts or fall in love, just good uncomplicated sex and we had a long term relationship with him.
I must admit that it surprised me the way the wife handled it but all was good, as the wife said she preferred married guys in the long run as they had a wife to go home to, they had to look after their self health wise and were not sleeping around with any bit and he was not the only married guy we seen.

3 Jul 2011

Quote by Rick_Salt
Plenty of people commit adultery and it's impossible for them all to be male . Married people are perfect for a sly root as they have as much to gain and lose as you do, and are more than likely going to be a 'better root'. They're trying to recapture what they've lost or remember what they've got

I am with you Pineapple.
For a start we are not looking at the moment.
When we switched from swinging to M F M threesomes (Swinging just had too many hassles meeting couples where the four all got along after the initial lust wore off) plus the fact that it turned me on watching the wife going with other guys, joining in and going silky seconds 'it also turned her on having the attention of two guys'.
We started out with single guys and had a couple of regular guys we met (this was BC 'before computers') through local sex contact papers (Searchlight and Ribald), we were also getting a lot of replies from married guys after a bit on the side which we did not reply to at first.
The wife turned off one of our regular single guys who I thought was a good fuck buddy and I could not understand why as she had always enjoyed the time we spent with him, she finally told me that he was hitting on her when I was not around, ringing her up and wanting her to meet him when I was at work and such things, so he got the chop real quick.
We received a reply from a married guy who seemed OK, the wife liked the look and sound of him and she agreed to meet him. It turned out he was our best contact we had ever made, he was happy at home and just wanted a bit of sex on the side, he did not want to upset any apple carts or fall in love, just good uncomplicated sex and we had a long term relationship with him.
I must admit that it surprised me the way the wife handled it but all was good, as the wife said she preferred married guys in the long run as they had a wife to go home to, they had to look after their self health wise and were not sleeping around with any bit and he was not the only married guy we seen.
We have been thinking along this line for a little while now so really apreciate this post.
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