i wouldnt have thought you'd have access for single men to message you, i only recetly located the pricavy options to limit incoming messages - suggestion
Yep, agree 100%. C'mon guys, you know that sex appeal is as much brain than brawn....if not more!..... so try saying something more than " Hiya Sexy"
thats a fair comment, however to alleviate further distress perhaps a more appropriate private network should be used for friends where you've already exchanged email or other contact details.
Any of you who have been on any other sites know this is not a new problem, you can either allow yourself to be a victim of and do nothing. Or put things in place to mitigate that annoyance, its not going away.
couples people express that they want something of a particular kind, and you justify the behavior and suggest everyone should change there settings to allow rude and assumptive sex gods to be weeded out , at the expense of their personal friends .
Really its justification and its the war cry of single guy, how about this, how about "no means no" and single guys show some respect for that rule in the sexual community.
Its not for everyone else to have to filter and accommodate these guys, it is for these guys to mature and get some social graces, no matter how inevitable dickheads may be.
People have a right to freedom and personal preference without changing the world cause dickheads cant play by the rules.
hey vouyer
i do see what your saying that people need to raise the bar for themselves to the standards you mentioned above. However that will not happen in either of our lifetimes, so its a case of toleration or mitigation.
and you've also stated i justifified their behaviour. I've done nothing of the sort, dont confuse justified with plausible reason. People do things for a reason whether they realise it or not discussion in relation to why these people do, dont do or otherwise is aimed at broadening the issue to find the core. I can rationaise why someone would murder however this hypothesis does not make their action justified.
And to clarify i'm not having a dig or a go, I'm just speaking having a chat, I'm more interested in reducing the problem and increasing success in the site.
Reading, spelling, sex, so much to learn in life. If they are no good in the first two, then they wont know any thing about the last.
We have spent a bit of time and thought on our profile and ad and what have you... and we have a really good giggle between ourselves when we get a message with limited info or attrocious spelling. What attracts us to a particular single guy is an obvious sense of humour and a pic... Even better if it's NOT a willy pic...
Mate you are so far from the mark, just because we are on this site or others and tell the world, as you put it what we do or want doesnt make it an open invitation to you, to bulldoze your way into our inbox.
With expectations of your version and cheap implications of what our profiles say. You still have to, as in real life make an effort and win us over offer us something equitable to our relationship or why would you get the time of day from us.
I will say it again , If your not what we want and you only have a cock to offer why would we give you the time of day if we say we expect more ??
Time to grow up swingers sites arent a place for easy roots, you think you joined your entitled to a fuck?
Not here, not with the people we know personally and not with the overwhelming members we chat to, you are getting first hand advice here and your too immature and full of your own self importance to see it.
Nothing you said in your post is either the truth or a very realistic outlook on what happens on a diverse site like this.
Your expectation exceed your ability to meet the market requirements you may be hung and may be something special but you fail to impress and get this across to prospective couples if you ignore what they have to say.
I do notice a great increase in single girls on here these days maybe they have other issues that keep your demeanor in favor why not try that , we think you have blown the couples market and would warn that single girls have thir pick of the bunch number wise and make even more demands on their partners.
Lets see how much success you have over the next few months .
It wont be with us or likely anyone we know however the world is full of all sorts of folks we hope you find your type.
Aussiebuilder. Right on the money.
If I want it to be nice and make friends and hold hands, I would be using Facebook!
This is a meet for sex site. And "some" couples like the ones that have replied on this forum can't admit that all they are looking for is sex, and tell stories about friendship. The truth is that they like fucking as much as single guys do. So much so at they have talked their partners into joining them. Couples just because you can't satisfy eachother sexually don't look down at confident singles guys that are willing and able to satisfy your partners.
Also, i would llike to know the women's point of view. I bet they would love a confident guy pleasing them. Bet it is their under performing partner who cry foul play.
Well done Aussiebuilder
Wow
Finally a couple real guys that know how to satisfy our wives.
Hey Guys we have gotton over our insecurities.
Please prettty please cum and fuck us we are lost without you single guys showing us the way.
stating couples are snobs, cant satisfy each other, and having a go at their lifetsyle IS being disrespectful
you can have an opinion without resorting to name calling and attacks
Previous posts about this very subject have highlighted why some single males never get any luck and only disdain on here, and it is not because everyones in a clique its because the single males in question are disrespectful, abusive in nature and rude when you dont do want they want or expect you to do.
These forums are great to have debates in, I love watching them BUT resorting to playground antics will result in a site moderator having to take action.
No one gets removed from this site for simply having a different opinion.
hey aussiebuilder hun hope to see u at our next play party
others have opinions of you because of their personal correspondance with you - which they have stated in other threads.
Sending abusive messages to people will never win you favours, doing the woe is me act wont work either.
You have an invite to a play party so obviously your getting something... whats your problem?
anyhow back to perving ...
