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Orgasminator
yes, saw a mate and his wife. hes also my wifes cousin. also our kids school friends parents
Sex God
Not on this site but yes , found a workmates profile and pics in a adult sex site
Sexpert
yes - there is a lady from another site who is regularly on cam from her shop when its been quiet - Luvvy and I have looked through the window watching her looking at her lappy and laughing and smiling - obviously, she is not putting on a show but in the chat-room.
We would never think of saying anything to her when we go in her shop as it would be bad manners to say anything as we do not know what her reaction would be. I do wonder why she so open to recognition as she makes no attempt to hide her face - maybe she wants to be recognised. We are not what she is looking for so there is no advantage to us saying "Hiii" apart from been friendly to a fellow swinger.
and...
A good friend of Luvvys was on this site before she married and had quiet a few experiences - when she married her hubby put a stop to her activities and like the good wife she is - she cancelled her profile but.... we do worry in case she sneaks back on and finds us... and no, it would not be fun... :twisted:
I have heard from other people they have been recognised and recognised others - sometimes good, most often a bad outcome, always a chance of it happening but they would have the same secret as you and be discreet.
When Luvvy and I play on cam we have thought about been recognised but maybe with our clothes on in the real world and looking very respectable and grand-parentedly, we are sure people would think "Nooo - not possible" and pass on by...
Kind of similar to the last post. At our first ever swingers party Mrs T2 played a little with a guy who we had never met before. A few days later as she catches a bus to work, there he is as the bus driver!
We haven't yet spotted anyone on these sites that we also know in the real world, but we think it would be great to bump into a friend at a swingers party or sex club one day. That possibly awkward "holy shit!" moment has a strange appeal to our warped sense of humour. :twisted:
Sexpert
Agreed, Tempted. At the end of the day, you're on the site for a reason, and most likely as embarrassed (initially) as each other. Kind of adds to the fun, and this whole thing is about pushing your boundaries & staying just that little bit tentative of what could happen...
Warming the Bed
We have had a few of these experiences (living in a smallish country town makes it more likely I suppose).
About 7 years ago I met up with a bi guy for some fun a couple of times before he suffered a collapsed disc in his back and couldn't play anymore, not long after he was transferred by his employer and suddenly he was our bank manager (yes I really did get screwed by my bank manager 
). Not only that but a couple of years later we discovered our sons were now best mates at school :shock:
Another incident (more recently) involved a couple that we had been chatting to on a swingers site (not this one but you all probably know it), we exchanged photos and talked about the easiest way for us all to get together as they had kids as well.
Anyway one day in woolies our eldest (in yr7 by this time) introduced me to his new best mate who was shopping with his mum. His mum and I shared a knowing look, she was half of the couple we were chatting to. In the end we never did play with them as the boys started spending weekends together which made meeting even harder and then her and her husband separated.
Then there was the new bi curious couple (on the same site again), after a bit of to and fro we found that we had a lot in common and exchanged pics... Damned if she wasn't a high school classmate/friend of my wifes who had recently divorced and was getting into swinging with her new BF. Not only that but our daughters had just started kindy together 
Still a bit awkward there but hopefully one day... (shes gorgeous lol)
I think these incidents (and a few others) are the reason why we don't really look for local couples to play with anymore and instead prefer to have dirty weekends away at swingers clubs or parties.
). Not only that but a couple of years later we discovered our sons were now best mates at school :shock:
Another incident (more recently) involved a couple that we had been chatting to on a swingers site (not this one but you all probably know it), we exchanged photos and talked about the easiest way for us all to get together as they had kids as well.
Anyway one day in woolies our eldest (in yr7 by this time) introduced me to his new best mate who was shopping with his mum. His mum and I shared a knowing look, she was half of the couple we were chatting to. In the end we never did play with them as the boys started spending weekends together which made meeting even harder and then her and her husband separated.
Then there was the new bi curious couple (on the same site again), after a bit of to and fro we found that we had a lot in common and exchanged pics... Damned if she wasn't a high school classmate/friend of my wifes who had recently divorced and was getting into swinging with her new BF. Not only that but our daughters had just started kindy together Still a bit awkward there but hopefully one day... (shes gorgeous lol)
I think these incidents (and a few others) are the reason why we don't really look for local couples to play with anymore and instead prefer to have dirty weekends away at swingers clubs or parties. I literally bumped into the nasty bitchy office lady from my workplace at a Saints and Sinners ball. Bowled round the corner and walked into a tallish, slim woman wearing a suspender belt, stockings and a g- string... I believe I may have been wearing a collar and a leather corset.... We both had a bit of a double take, laughed and from then on she was totally lovely whenever I had to deal with her at school. ( still nasty to everybody else though!)
Orgasminator
my fb and I met in real life, but didn't really talk to each other. Then he messaged me on here - he had seen my photos.
Been recognised at the local shopping centre, and also recognised by band members that I have seen. One even remembered signing my shirt years ago
I have no problems with being recognised from here, after all, they are on the site also
I have no problems with being recognised from here, after all, they are on the site also 
Forum Virgin
We have met 2 couples & a girl from our kids school. We have played with 1 couple & the girl. None of us find it strange, we are all looking for sex & when it works out its fun for everyone. The real friends with benefits situation. We all get together socially, but not so much for play any more. Just nice having friends with common interests.
Sex God
Well just browsing some profiles and guess what , found a single guy that we know pretty well on this site
Warming the Bed
I was at my regular seedy motel with my lover and a friend when I saw someone from here in the car park. I saw him twice he was with another fem and he ignored me ok thought bit weird. This man whom I thought was nice decent above avg intelligent and who had manners in the end just turned out to be another male tool in my eyes. Few yrs back he wanted to meet and I told him I was going to meet my lover at a motel and he invited him self to meet me prior to my loving arriving. I then invited him up to the room to meet my lover and I had a play with him and he left. Over the yrs we were friends always chattered never an angry word etc. He asked me about the details of the motel so that he could use it etc. Well two weeks ago I saw him there he completely ignores me twice and at one stage I'm like 2- 3 feet away from him. This rude man then turns his head and looks away how sad he couldn't even just say hi or wink. Now his married if it was at another place in the world I would not have expected any acknowledgement from him. I did not need to know who he was bonking on the day but felt a bit hurt by this as we had enjoyed plenty of laughs over the years. I thought about it and thought no rude when I spoke to him online he then wasn't very apologetic nothing was more cocky and I took offense and removed my vouch from his profile. Sadly this man now just another fool who was thinking with his dick. I might as well add the fem who I didnt need to know who she was didnt want to be introduced. Her loss as well and I hope shes not even saying hi to me in the room now as I just hate two faced people.
All types make the world go round
Quote by waggaboundyes was at the shopping centre when a guy sat next to me at the coffee shop and said ive admired you in swingers Australia for a while , he was very pleasant and we joked about different people on here and we parted ways saying good bye, we keep in touch and have met up for a threesome twice hes still a very nice guy .
Hello all,
I was just curious has any ever recognized someone in a pic here that they know or have been recognized and contacted?
I havent but im just curious if anyone has
Quote by ms_twiddletwat
I literally bumped into the nasty bitchy office lady from my workplace at a Saints and Sinners ball. Bowled round the corner and walked into a tallish, slim woman wearing a suspender belt, stockings and a g- string... I believe I may have been wearing a collar and a leather corset.... We both had a bit of a double take, laughed and from then on she was totally lovely whenever I had to deal with her at school. ( still nasty to everybody else though!)
LOL priceless!
Orgasminator
I ran into my cousin and her hubby at a meet & greet from another adult site. I thought it was hilarious and she was shocked to be "outed". She pleaded with me not to tell her Mum, which made me laugh even more. It took a little bit to assure her that she could just as easily out me.
A couple of months later we ran into them both at Saints. Nothing more surreal than having a convo about family and you look to your left and see her hubby and Mr Good spit roasting a mutual friend. We still laugh about that one!
Warming the Bed
We haven't recognised anybody that we personally know but with the people we are meeting it feels like we have known them before, nothing has been awkward.. It's like good old friends we haven't seen for a while.
Master of Sex
We've met existing friends and a work colleague in here, the latter when we sitting naked in a large spa and she plopped in beside us before recognition occurred. We all had a laugh and went on to explore a new aspect of our existing friendships.
We sometimes meet fellow swingers from the site as we move about our local community. Everyone has been very discreet so we have no fear of being 'outed'. We have found swinging to be surprisingly social and have made some great friendships so far whether we have played or not.
Regards,
Muffins
Warming the Bed
Just the other day I recognised a work colleague and his wife on another site.
Hopefully they are yet to realise we are on the same site.
Warming the Bed
We have recognised a friend we knew for many years. We chat now on here and on other social networks, found it very open and friendly experience. Not sure if we will every play together but brings a new aspect to an old friendship.
We have also recognised my ( M's) cousin and his wife. We haven't mentioned it as yet but see each other regularly for bbqs. Might be an interesting topic if we run out of things to talk about one day They haven't been online here now for a while which may mean they are having a break.
They haven't been online here now for a while which may mean they are having a break. yep, I come from a small country town and gave a private pic invite to someone I was chatting to, they came back to me saying they knew me from town and gave my real name, I was devastated as I am married and hubby doesn't know I play. I have since met the person and we have agreed to keep it to ourselves, phew crisis over FOR NOW.
SINCE TAKEN MY FACE PIC OFF PRIVATE PICS LOL
I met a woman on the street once that I recognized for a different site. Her tattoos gave her away.
I was at a friends kids birthday party once and recognized a guy from a different site as well. I've wondered ever since if the couple I know are swingers.
I see nothing wrong with saying hello if you run into someone you recognize from a site. Just say hello and chat if they are alone. They can chose to play dumb and say no, it is not me or they can chat with you. No harm.
Johnny
