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This may be a daft question but if its in a bar with other non SH punters around, presumably there's some way of identifying each other – a red carnation in the lapel etc!?

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NSA fun sure is hard to find, or so it does seem.
For us, we seek it but we are also not going to respond to a message and hit the sheets with the person as we prefer to meet socially to find if a connection exists before anything happens as for us, a connection of some kind is crucial. Whilst that may not be everyone's idea of NSA it is ours as if/when we choose to play we have no care as to the individual's maritial or relationship status, just that they be honest enough to tell us up front and that they are open to new ideas, but most importantly that they realise that if it all about fun.
As a couple we struggle to find people that are genuine enough to chat and meet socially as many expect us to be their booty call where that is not our way, and so we often get hit on when they are horny (we get a message telling us).
NSA is one thing to us, and something else to another and so on, but yes it is hard to find and once found, harder to keep.
We hope all who are seeking it genuinely find it, as we have not yet given up hope.

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Thanks Bob and Happy for your input, and taking the time to contribute. My beef is really with those who CLAIM not to care, but dont answer, follow up or make arrangements then dont show up. Most people wouldn't be on here if they were so sactimonious and morallistic to care.

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This may be a daft question but if its in a bar with other non SH punters around, presumably there's some way of identifying each other – a red carnation in the lapel etc!?