All I am looking for is someone to share some fun times, get a bit dirty act out a few of our fantasies and put a smile on each others faces. But I don't seem to get much response to my messages. I have been honest and open about the fact that I am married and I think this might be putting a few ladies off. Come on girls we are all here for some good times so give me a go, drop me a line and lets get the ball rolling.
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NSA fun is getting hard to find!!
Master of Sex
Yep, being married does put you at a huge disadvantage here.
Warming the Bed
looking at your profile, it says you're married, but it doesn't say if you're doing this with her permission or whether you're sneaking around behind her back, and I'm guessing that's where you're issues are stemming from (apart from the fact it's already very hard for single males to find people on here just due to the numbers of male to female). Clarify that and you might have more luck.
Well said Simone.
I'm in the same boat, and am frustrated that no-one ever follows up. I too aren't lying about my status ( it would be easy to say single).
I wonder whether most people on here are really serious or are just "teasers".
Even when a post indicates it's OK to be married, the posters rarely reply or turn up to meetings.
Will
Warming the Bed
As i said before Willie, your profile doesn't say whether your wife is ok with it and that raises flags in peoples eyes. Which is odd as I've seen some of your other posts and your wife is quite obviously ok with it, so why not put that in your profile? I'm willing to bet it'll make all the difference. People don't want to take the risk with a married man getting caught out cheating when they're on here going behind the wifes back, and with so many single males on here, they don't need to. So to increase your chances, make it clear there will be no trouble.
I dont have an issue with married men per se.....more about if their partners are agreeable of their playing.
For me it is not about being sanctimonious.....I just don't want the jealous wife/girlfriend banging on my door accusing me of playing up when it is their own partner that has not been honest and up front.
There are enough non attached people out there that I dont need to play with those whose jealous partners may cause me trouble. I have had past male play partners want to continue behind their partners back after they have found a committed girlfriend.......not for me - unless of course I have confirmed with their partner that it is ok 
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Happygirl75
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Happygirl75 Quote by williek
Thanks Bob and Happy for your input, and taking the time to contribute. My beef is really with those who CLAIM not to care, but dont answer, follow up or make arrangements then dont show up. Most people wouldn't be on here if they were so sactimonious and morallistic to care.
I am with you on this williek, we are all on here for different reasons and I certainly don't judge other peoples ideas or motives, I have met some really nice people in the short time i have been on this site and hopefully will meet a lot more....people need to realise that we are not all the same and are certainly not all in the same situation.
NSA fun sure is hard to find, or so it does seem.
For us, we seek it but we are also not going to respond to a message and hit the sheets with the person as we prefer to meet socially to find if a connection exists before anything happens as for us, a connection of some kind is crucial. Whilst that may not be everyone's idea of NSA it is ours as if/when we choose to play we have no care as to the individual's maritial or relationship status, just that they be honest enough to tell us up front and that they are open to new ideas, but most importantly that they realise that if it all about fun.
As a couple we struggle to find people that are genuine enough to chat and meet socially as many expect us to be their booty call where that is not our way, and so we often get hit on when they are horny (we get a message telling us).
NSA is one thing to us, and something else to another and so on, but yes it is hard to find and once found, harder to keep.
We hope all who are seeking it genuinely find it, as we have not yet given up hope. 
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NSA fun sure is hard to find, or so it does seem.
For us, we seek it but we are also not going to respond to a message and hit the sheets with the person as we prefer to meet socially to find if a connection exists before anything happens as for us, a connection of some kind is crucial. Whilst that may not be everyone's idea of NSA it is ours as if/when we choose to play we have no care as to the individual's maritial or relationship status, just that they be honest enough to tell us up front and that they are open to new ideas, but most importantly that they realise that if it all about fun.
As a couple we struggle to find people that are genuine enough to chat and meet socially as many expect us to be their booty call where that is not our way, and so we often get hit on when they are horny (we get a message telling us).
NSA is one thing to us, and something else to another and so on, but yes it is hard to find and once found, harder to keep.
We hope all who are seeking it genuinely find it, as we have not yet given up hope.
Well said guys, I am with you on all of your comments, the contacts I have made through this site are all ongoing, indeed some of them are purely social with no sex involved
