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19 Jun 2006

Don't push whatever you do. You sound exactly like myself years ago. I talked to my wife and told her my fantasy. Plain and simple. She has never gone out and suprised me but it helped her get into the idea of MFM and on occasion I watch for a while but usually end up getting seconds or joining in on the fun. Don't push and good luck. Good things come to those who wait. Ioannes :grin:

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19 Jun 2006

I've learned after doing this for a while, and then dating the normal girl. Once you swing, you'll swing all the time! There's no going back. The sex is too good to pass up, and I think it makes the relationship stronger Ioannes :grin:

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19 Jun 2006

I'm certain it happens in swinging, although it's not something I've ever done. But, then, it happens with vanilla couples all the time also, so I doubt swinging all by itself makes it any more likely. Ioannes :grin:

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19 Jun 2006

It definitely changed our marriage, I felt more affectionate towards my wife but my wife took this to mean that I was feeling guilty about being with another woman, she is starting to gradually come around to the fact that my love for her has been renewed & I feel it is because she shared a special fantasy with me. My wife still has misgivings about what happened, but we have had cuddles in bed with our friend since the first threesome & I played with both girls again (breasts only but) but a couple of days later my wife stated that she did not want to do things every time our friend came over which I understand. I would never pressure my wife into doing something she did not enjoy, I am letting her set the pace & if it never happens again then so be it! Ioannes :grin:

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19 Jun 2006

If kissing is out...or anyway... I find that, as the 2nd male in MFM, a nice slow massage for the lady works very well. It raises the comfort level and trust, as well as getting the juices flowing for all. Ioannes :grin:

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18 Jun 2006

I am 6 months pregnant and we have put a hold on our swinging until after the baby comes. I understand what people are saying about the risk of STD's, but you always run that risk- that's why it's so important to be careful- pregnant or not. The reason we have not gone to a club since our good news is b/c I don't feel completely comfortable with my new, changing body. My husband thinks it's sexy and we have continued our sex life in a private way... which is good, too! I don't think it's necessarily bad to go out and swing while pregnant.... to each his/her own, especially if you feel comfortable with it- that is what matters the most! It has to be an individual and couple decision. There are many men and women, who find pregnancy sexy and a turn on. I know that for us, now, our fantasies keep living on and we talk about it constantly (how we can't wait to go out and explore more after the new arrival). Good luck! Congratulations!

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