Watching her with another male

19 Jun 2006

My fantasy for a long time has been to watch my fiance have sex with another guy. It wouldn't matter to me if I were there to watch or for her to go out and video tape it and surprise me. The problem is that she isn't sure if she wants to do this, but it seems like she wants to make me happy. From reading this site, I've noticed that my fantasy isn't an uncommon one. What can I do to get her to see that it isn't cheating and help her fulfill my fantasy?

19 Jun 2006

Don't push whatever you do. You sound exactly like myself years ago. I talked to my wife and told her my fantasy. Plain and simple. She has never gone out and suprised me but it helped her get into the idea of MFM and on occasion I watch for a while but usually end up getting seconds or joining in on the fun. Don't push and good luck. Good things come to those who wait. Ioannes :grin:

19 Jun 2006

You've told her your fantasy and she wants to make you happy, but it doesn't sound like she's too happy about it. For me, wanting to see her with another man is about her pleasure, so if she's not into it, there's no point, is there?

19 Jun 2006

Bring her here, let her learn on her own, at her own pace. Don't force her and don't rush her. dannyell :P :P :-?