I have had serval people and couples contact me on here and before you can even reply, im blocked. Respect is gone and the age of self centred is upon us
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bert
3 weeks ago
Bi-curious Male, 46
0 km · Penrith
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I have been a member on here for years and had some great times. That said there has been a substantial increase in the above stated, Not just woman but also couples who contact you then dont get back in contact. I take it as the norm now that most people literally have no manners or common courtesy. Hence i no longer make an attempt to contact anyone. And the disappointing thing is some on here that say they return messages are the biggest culprits.
I would like to point out that there are many couples on SH that list they are looking for a single male. And yes they will not respond.
I think it a sign of the times that alot of people simple can not be bothered to reply and simply dont care regardless of how polite you may be. If the shoe was on the other foot??
Just the attitude one could expect. people that are so far up them selves and believe they are better then others. with nothing better to do than try and be show ponies. Thank you for making my point hughjardon49
I think it is now accepted to waste peoples time. Ill use my most recent example. I meet a nice couple at an adult get together. we all hit it off very well and agreed to meet at a close nudist venue, confirmed via text 2 days before. Upon arrival they completely ignored me and approached some other friends of theirs. ( and yes they saw me naked prior ) I walked up to say hi and they just brushed me off. I always believed that nudist weren't materialistic, i got proved wrong that day as i dont drive a 100 series landcruiser or have a 40 foot van in tow. The rudeness of some people amaze me. So in point i have no expectations of anyone being genuine even the ones that contact you and give you there phone number.
I have never meet a group of people who are so rude and as on here.
I dont care if i upset you enough is enough.
To the people who contact you and dont have the courtesy to then reply.
And those who you take a day off work to meet and then cancel with a bullshit excuse ( yes the truth came out ) go onto faxe book and get your 500 Friends.
Sorry to the very small minority. the rest of you are a joke
Quote by Rustrixie
We had the same thing a few weeks back and posted about it, set up a coffee date turned up and they were a no show.
Maybe we need to start outing these people, probably not allowed. The good thing is that there are plenty of genuine nice sexy people out there.
I could not agree more. we need to out these people who are better suited to face book. Sorry for sounding blunt but there are just to many time wasters with no courtesy or respect.
I agree. There are a lot of time wasters here. you make time around work to meet them and they don't show. very frustrating. the problem is its the single guys that get the reputation for this
Quote by lea_ken
to all the people who said they would turn up to the gangbang and didn't thanks a lot timewasters just shows 90% on here are timewasters and full of shit
I'm in the majority here being a single male.
But yes people contact you and then do not respond.
I believe it now goes with the culture of having no responsibility or plain courtesy.
It leaves a very sour taste in ones mouth, its like an adults face book were some people just want a big amount of friends.
I feel better now
But yes people contact you and then do not respond.
I believe it now goes with the culture of having no responsibility or plain courtesy.
It leaves a very sour taste in ones mouth, its like an adults face book were some people just want a big amount of friends.
I feel better now
Quote by CoupleMelb69" date="22/03/2015 2:40:02 PM
Yep it happens, excuse after excuse after organising times etc.
Quote by abbernathy
Let me know what time and I'll be there
Damn we have already been there - got there around 1pm and left about 2..... There were a few guys around, we went for a walk around the riverside then went back to the car and played there, I gave hubby a nice bj and we were being watched by a guy in the bushes....another guy walked past the car but didnt approach us. Maybe get there again tomorrow to try our luck
Hi guys, ill be there on Sunday at if you are around
Quote by misterpb59
After chating to people in the rooms and at meets it seems there is a small minority on here that think it is ok to waste peoples time. There are males posing as couples and others that go cold when ask to meet or even worse do not show up at arranged places. This is an Adult site set up for people that want to make friendships and enjoy life it is about time people started behaving like Adults.
There are great people on here that i have met at the meet and those that want to play games go to a site like facebook they have plenty of games there.
Hi mate,
I cant figure it out, there are that many time wasters. i have just had an influx of people sending freinds requests and not returning msgs. Its frustrating and give me the you know whats.
It also gives the genuine people a bad name.
Id love to see a name and shame section as something needs to be done.
Happy new year all
Hi all and thanks for the support,
Just to clarify the questions that have been raised is that there profile says that they were looking for single males, there profile seemed to fit the bill, and no they didnt responde to my first message. both messages that were sent were not in the sexual nature at all. basicaly just saying hi and asking if they would like to chat some more.
Thanks Bert
Ps thanks for the idea to update my profile (some thing i should have done long ago i guess)
Hi all,
just after a little advise from a dif poin of view.
I just sent a message to a couple that literaly told me to f@#k of wan%#r.
Sure i had emailed them a few weeks ago to say hi and had no responce (i didnt realise that i had emailed them)
and sure i sent them back a message in the heat of the moment.
as it turns out they have done this to others aswell.
Ive read the posts on single males and held the same veiw. And yes i am a single male.
Why are some people just plainly rude and abusive?
Any advice would be nice.
Thanks all
Quote by Oz1234567
Hi im runnin a bit of a poll want to know how many single blokes have actually hooked up on this site only the guys who have post cause no dout theres alot who havent just wanna know if its worth it or am I wasting my time
ive been on here over 12 months now and im flat out getting even a reply.
Good luck mate
