Interesting question?
I attended a party in Europe, where it was commonplace that the guys had some "assistance" - and not just the oldies either.
I don't know what the proportion here would be - and I guess it is illegal for the party to supply it.
I know there are some very dodgy on line sources in Australia, but they are definitely not to be trusted.
Has anyone had a bad experience with on-line ordered Viagra, and I think I am right in saying that venues are banned from selling it..
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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
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I have read all the previous responses...
I was considering going on the 20th Jan... but am I to conclude it will be a disappointing waste of time, and I would be better saving my money for WOW?
Yes, I am a single male, but I do have a FB who I could bring along - except I would not subject her to an atmosphere of 10+ males following her around. That simply upsets her - she likes multiple partners, but not to be .
Maybe, it is our fault, that the (respectful) single men, which understand the protocol, do not police the single male idiots who believe that $40 buys them the RIGHT to shove their dicks in whoever , or in whatever.
I could "take a chance" and risk the $40 and end up staying for 20 minutes, or I could be blessed by an exceptional good night....
I agree with one comment that we need to treat Attunga and Shed 16 and Bay City a bit like dogging... if it happens, it happens, but $40 buys you a seat at the table -only occasionally will you be allowed to feed....
I have been to WOW a couple of times - with my FB. The first time was great - the second time not so... Having been there as a couple, I can't imagine any single male ever paying $350 and being happy. Apart from the voyeuristic benefits, that works out to be about $100 an orgasm.... There are also enough couples there playing with couples that I would doubt a single male would get nothing better than a cold shoulder or a quick hand job...
.. so ,, maybe I will invest $40 in the Biology experience.. and report back....
..so how do we change this reality and this perception that majority of males on this site are stereotypical dickheads...We all have the same image of these people.
What is so sad ( and it happens in so many walks of life) is that it is the idiots who destroy the opportunity for the many many respectful males out there. We are in the same boat as many couples - we want to explore in middle or later life many things that have been denied us in the past...we are clean decent, can hold a conversation.
If we could separate the dickheads from the desirables, then we could have an adult website where we could chat, and meet as adults and get to tick those boxes that otherwise remain unticked...
It frustrates men, as well as couples, and particularly single ladies, that our collective enjoyment is curtailed because of those that don't have the intelligence to understand that being abusive or selfish achieves nothing. Case in point - , how many dogging meets, and adult parties are spoilt because the dickheads turn up in the droves and expect to get "serviced" - Guys - if you fit the category, then get off this site, go and pay for a working lady to get rid of your need to "use" someone for your own gratification and stop stuffing it up for everyone else... then maybe, maybe, those of us who want to be "swingers" (and not males who need a shag), can enjoy this site for what it tries to be.
Do any couples ever go to Club x in Thomastown?
It is a great venue - spacious, clean and warm. So much better than the one in the city.
I have been a few times but it has only ever been a few men inside. Last time one came in and sat almost next to me in a near empty theatre. - I told him to piss off and I pissed off as well. I did not think the Thomastown one attracted men looking for men..
One solution is maybe to descend on one of the sauna places for the afternoon. I expect they would be fairly empty on a Tuesday or Thursday afternoon.. and I am sure we would be welcome.
NSW Indulgence ( if you read this) would you contemplate opening the doors to us for a regular afternoon ?
I don't know of any regular couples parties in Melbourne during the week.... Many of us find ourselves working over the weekend, so the traditional Friday or Saturday night is out of the question.. and nothing is worse than leaving early just when the fun is really starting to begin.
Ideally a day party would be good - an afternoon escape. Does anyone know if these occur?
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should have coloured towels eg pink for bi, blue for straight so on that way everyone knows what others looking for or brown for show black for play
I agree with the towels idea... We don't want to make any mistakes...
But half the fun is simply turning up and seeing what happens
why wouldn't your partner approve? There is no emotional attachment in phone sex - it is a way in dealing in fantasy. I always believe that our fantasies are our own, and we should experience them. This does not mean that we destroy any emotional bond with our partner..
.. A fantasy about indulging in the destruction of a chocolate cake, and a fantasy about phone sex - Is it ok to enact one fantasy and not the other??
Let's make sure there is a good turnout... but we all need to be respectful and not expect to find a large number of women there desperate for sex with strangers.
There is nothing sadder than watching a group of men constantly walking from room to room in search of a peek at some activity or feeling very out of place in a this type of place. Do yourself a favour and stay away. There is no certainty of gettting sexually involved with anyone, but sometimes the atmosphere is just enough.
Many ladies stay away as they don't want to be THE centre of attention, but the more that come and enjoy the better the atmosphere will be
See you there
I am not sure which forum box this fits into, so I will choose this one.
A question for those with Melbourne knowledge... I want to take my secret fuck buddy for a casual liaison in Melbourne. Hiring rooms by the hour is tacky, and hiring rooms for the night is not good for the wallet. Finding a caual car park by the beach is ok, but we are not into exhibitions or dogging, and are both over steamy windows and uncomfortable car seats.....
So what does Melbourne offer the couple seeking the longish early evening quicke? where are the quiet back alleys, the "love hotels" or the hidden bike sheds? The Dendy is too public, the beach too cold and the park too unsafe, the Boardroom table too career limiting and breaking into showhomes too illegal.
I wonder if it is a question that many have pondered and that someone may have the answer to.....
Hhmmm I don't know if anything happened at the Dendy last night. .... I dropped by around 10 and there was quite an audience of males, far greater than at the other (rare) times I have been. I guess this could have been a result of our own publicity..I did wonder how many were SH members!!!..
Gee that place is sleazy, but that could be half the attraction.
Time to start the Dendy Group so meets can be communicated privately...
Fr
I could not agree more with that comment. I would suggest, however, some form of informal booking system, so the ratios make for a good evening.
I am really excited about the thought of bringing a lady friend there for her first taste of adult party heaven, so if I hear that there are several couples coming as well, then that will take away her nervousness,
I agree that Matt does an excellent job with arranging, and it is a fantastic venue..
F
I have been on the site a while, but mainly an inactive member of the SH community
Like many of us, I am re-discovering and re-inventing my sexual freedom as I leave my 40's..
The Melbourne scene does not hold many parties where us sexually fit and active couples and singles can meet..
I am a normal, fit healthy, slim male who enjoys afternoon/evening encounters with similar aged and similar minded couples and ladies.
A typical encounter? - food, wine, socialising and massage.. and experiences.. all rolled up in a sophisticated, relaxed and respectful atmosphere.
Life is getting too short, so for those couple and singles who are wishing to have an escapist experience, then we should get in touch..
F
Has anybody else tried the Bay City mixed night on a Tuesday night? It is a great venue with everything we could need - rooms, spa, sauna and dark spaces... the only thing it lacked is couples/women... lots of horny guys hanging around, moving from room to room in search of the elusive females.
Such a shame that this excellent place is not utilised on a Tuesday night - maybe it can become a Swingers Heaven midweek get together..
It would be good to try to invoke some interest on the website each weekend, and then I am sure we could guarantee a good turn out..
.Ladies - if you are eager to try a group party, but weekends and Friday nights just don't fit the diary, then a Tuesday night party ( which starts around 7) could be the chance to break your virginity...
I have no affiliation to Bay City, apart from being appreciative of someone making a venue available to the Swinging Community of Melbourne..
I went along to check it out for a lady friend who may accompany me next time for a Tuesday night GB..
Cheers
F
