) I think you will find that this site has all sizes and alot of people who love us larger people.
I totally understand where you are coming from though i am a larger lady, but i have not found many people on this site who did not like my luscious larger body.
You could also look at a great website called club cuddly which is a swingers site for larger people and their admirers, we have made some wonderful friends from this site also.
Good luck in your search )
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