Ok here goes, Ive not done this before, posted in the forum so lets see if I have more luck finding what I am after by posting it here............
First up read my profile so you know what my arrangement is and what I am after.............
AND YOU MUST BE ABLE TO HOST AS I RARELY CAN...........THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT TO TAKE NOTE OF GUYS!!!
*take special note of my age range and body type please!!!*
I live on the Gold Coast, in Burleigh. I want a fwb who is interested in more than a fuck and run type arrangement.
My hubby works overseas and it gets lonely so Im after company as well as sexual fulfillment when he is away. Hubby is aware of my single profile here before anyone thinks Im cheating..........so not the case........*refer to my profile*
I want to spend time together, perhaps share a drink, a meal out, listen to some good music, have a laugh and have it all end in some sexy fulfilling fun for us both. And on a regular basis, thats important ok! So all you attached guys are not going to fit what i am after.
I want someone who is free nights and weekends as well as some days if possible, so this fits the single guy, attached guys move on please.
I am after a guy who actually wants to get to know me not just fuck me, who is after good company and an enjoyable time when we get together. But who can walk away after and return to his own life til the next time we meet. Do you exist?
I am not after a clingy type who will want to spend all his time with me, its strictly NSA fun Im after guys!
So now I will sit back and see what is out there I guess. Thanks for reading and hopefully digesting what I am after before you jump in with an offer :smile:
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Orgasminator
oi gc wanna fuck. ive got my running shoes on 
nah seriously good luck hun
nah seriously good luck hun 
Orgasminator
yes GC i see it heaps, and some of those pick up lines are just so enticing lol
how can you knock them back ???
play safe hun
Hey GC
Well done!!! What a fantastic post (if i may say so myself). I just hope that you too get the real guys, who have read your profile, thought about it first, before they respond, and hopefully can muster up a response better than a one liner which carries substance.
I know that my posts have received amazing feedback and response (based on my post) although nothing on the other side - but that is ok. If it makes others think a little first, then for people like you, who are good, respectful and genuine, i hope you find what you are looking for. Good luck, and have faith - good single guys are out there. Lets hope that they can prove it
Diesel
Master of Sex
What a shame. Here we have a sexy female asking for a regular fwb but no response.
Gc you know you wouldn't have to ask if I was local and that's why I didn't respond to the message.
But now I can only shake my head. Now where are those ff points ;)
Take care and I'm still shaking my head wondering.
Orgasminator
all these "men" wanting a woman and when the offers there they run and hide. what is it they really want??? is it just an ego boost for them.
gc, mrs two said if we were close she would send me over ( just so i stop mollesting her) but alas distance kills the idea.
i really thought you would be inundated with offers. maybe the singles cant read the forum
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This post has been a total waste of time. There maybe a lot of single guys on this site but going by the response i have received, most are obviously attached and cheating.................ho hum........
Oh GC - i would like to say i am beyond speechless - but i am not. I am totally surprised on the one hand, but on the other not.
Your post was amazing, honest, real, true, specific and genuine. When i spend time on this site, i float between forums, chat room and profiles and the common things i see are as follows:
* In profiles - couples and ladies stating - NO SINGLE MEN - you will be blocked, do not bother, we will find you when we want you etc etc etc
* In forums - the single guys state - free now lets meet, or oh how i would love to do this and do that to you, or i am keen message me a time and place
A few days ago as you know (and we have spoken about this), i placed a post in the forums section - to my amazement, my post has been viewed in total by nearly 1500 members. On one post i received 10 replies another 12, and another none. All of the posts were from people (combination of males, females and couples) congratulating me for my words, and the effort, for trying to change the way people behave. I also received around 15 messages to my inbox all totalling about the same, all of which i have personally responded to with thanks and appreciation for the recognition.
I must however point out that, in all of the views received, and in all of the messages, not one was close to an offer, a suggested offer, an attempt at communication, or an attempt at even a friendship - nothing (Bare you). All the single guys avoided comments (Bare one with his one liner), and it too was a waste.
I have summarised that being real, sincere and genuine clearly gains no advantage. If the single ladies and couples on this site actually took the time to re-read their own damn profiles (in full), and then match that up to your forum post, or mine, there are a million reasons why connections should have been made, but yet nothing.
I have gine further personally by having identified a couple of ladies who are often i the chat rooms, who when readying their profile, detail exactly what i was looking for, i fit the bill in age, i match their comment requirements, and i match their profile which suggests they are looking for single males etc etc. I took the time to send them a message, to outline my profile, to refer to my forum post. Since sending the message, i have seen them in the chat rooms again - so fair to say they have been back online. And guess what - not even an acknowledgement, let alone a reply.
I have come to realise a few things
1: It is not only the guys that are the problem - while i do not discount the guys being problematic and have detailed posts to suggest this, but it is in fact a community issue - SH has become a chat group rather than its core - which has been lost
2: Both Guys and Girls looking for similar things are not finding it - not here anyway
3: The common decency has disappeared and i almost wonder if those posting the "quickies / gang bangs, couples parties and come and go type meets using un-educated vulgarity are better off than we are
4: I actually wonder if very much actually happens other than Meet and Greets and some commercial parties.
I have to say that i have officially lost hoped on SH and the only reason i remain a member / subscribed is the "enquiring mind" tempts me to log on and see what others have to say - but the realist in me has confirmed that if you want to be excited by the joys of who we are, find only excitement in yourself as no one can give you more than what you can give yourself.
GC - as i said to you, i would love to catch up with you when next i am up your way and only the distance between us will prevent me from being able to give you what you are looking for. I would have offered in a heart beat - and yes my offer would have been more than a one liner
It is with that in mind i wish you luck in finding what you are looking for in your search, and i say to all the single guys on this site who are brave enough to write a profile, suggesting they are looking for a lady, and who equally are brave enough to post in the forum section looking to meet - what happened guys - a real offer and the balls fell out of their sacks...???? Seriously?????
I am out - i am genuine, real, honest and reliable - i have more than one word in my vocabulary, and clearly that is not a recognised trait or quality - so instead of building hope, i will focus my energies elsewhere.
Good luck all - see ya SH!!!
Fantasy V's reality , it's always a tricky 1 . The alure of fantasy is always safest in the mind but when confronted with the honesty of reality and its consequences , 1 tends to way up the out come more carefully .
In a nut shell "our eyes are bigger than the plate " .
However there are those few wise ones who exactly know what they want .
Good Luck
wow ,,,,was that a rant that your not getting none diesal79????? cause it certainly came across that way to me ,,which is surprising as having read your previous posts you sounded like you had your shit together and understood that despite the fact that you may match a person/couples profile requests 110% that is by no means a guarantee that they will be interested in you ,,regardless of your looks or apparent intelligence ,,,,
as for having no reply's to your messages ,,which I would assume from your posts are quite well written and polite ,,well yours are probably lost amongst the billions of rubbish messages that single ladies and hot couples receive on a daily basis, you sound like you have the fallen into the classic trap of expectation ,,,,you seem to expect a reply or reward simply because you have gone to some effort ,,,,sorry fella it just don't work that way, though it would be nice if it did.
I will agree that with both you and baa in surprise and shock that gcg ( whom I have chatted with many times) has had no luck in her search and but I would say to gcg to keep looking, it will happen sooner or later hun ,,and as you know ,,if I were in qld still you would of had a certain buddy in me should you of desired ..
diesel ,,,nothing is certain or guaranteed but with continued effort such as you have displayed, you will also meet folk just I have and do ,,,along with many others who may or may not reply to your posts
keep searching dude ,,,,,it is so worth it when the hunt comes to a fruitful conclusion .
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wow ,,,,was that a rant that your not getting none diesal79????? cause it certainly came across that way to me ,,which is surprising as having read your previous posts you sounded like you had your shit together and understood that despite the fact that you may match a person/couples profile requests 110% that is by no means a guarantee that they will be interested in you ,,regardless of your looks or apparent intelligence ,,,,
as for having no reply's to your messages ,,which I would assume from your posts are quite well written and polite ,,well yours are probably lost amongst the billions of rubbish messages that single ladies and hot couples receive on a daily basis, you sound like you have the fallen into the classic trap of expectation ,,,,you seem to expect a reply or reward simply because you have gone to some effort ,,,,sorry fella it just don't work that way, though it would be nice if it did.
I will agree that with both you and baa in surprise and shock that gcg ( whom I have chatted with many times) has had no luck in her search and but I would say to gcg to keep looking, it will happen sooner or later hun ,,and as you know ,,if I were in qld still you would of had a certain buddy in me should you of desired ..
diesel ,,,nothing is certain or guaranteed but with continued effort such as you have displayed, you will also meet folk just I have and do ,,,along with many others who may or may not reply to your posts
keep searching dude ,,,,,it is so worth it when the hunt comes to a fruitful conclusion .
Hey Lonelydad - Thanks for your response to my post, and sadly i think you have me a little mistaken, or mis-interpreted. I am by no means ranting on my own bat of my fruits - i am not complaining due to lack of interest, but pointing out the fact, that talk appears greater than fact. I am surprised that GC failed to receive adequate response, or any response at all, but my comments were pointed as a general word to all. I do not by any means expect anything from anyone, and i believe for me, that i am a giver rather than receiver in all walks of life, personally, professionally and the like. I am stating facts on the basis that (and correctly so in most cases), we are quick to blame the guys for their tardy and "interesting" remarks and comments they post, but too want to draw attention to the fact that many write profiles, but wonder if those profile are just words, to tease and tantalise, with no intent of anything more. I am not concerned as to if i do or don't meet anyone on this site to fulfil my profile or fantasy, but the key message i was delivering was focused around the fact that i do not just randomly message people, if i choose, selectively to send a message to anyone, i make certain that in depth i have read their profile, from top to bottom to ensure that i am in the category in which they search. From this, i expect nothing more than common decency, and having enough respect for others, this stems solely from the respect i have for me.
I believe in offering those the same as we expect in return, and to expect common courtesy, is nothing less than the basics of human decency. As such, if you want to meet good people, then offer benefit of doubt, by delivering to those, the same as you expect in return.
I completely accept that while i may "meet the guidelines of ones written profile", i may have not stirred ay interest, and that it 100% acceptable.
Lonelydad - i have met you at a Meet ad Greet, and you are a respectable, decent, and genuine guy. I have seen you in the chat rooms, and your comments are always respectful, considerate, and what anyone would expect as being decent. You on that basis can understand, or should understand that - respect goes a long way, courtesy does to.
Fair to say i was not ranting about my own mis fortune, and clearly set myself up for failure here - that is ok. What i do know is that over 1500 people have read my initial forum post (regardless of response), and if that helps anyone else to better the way they communicate, and look to gain the respect of others, before expecting anything in return - then i have contributed. Contributed to the better of others, but more importantly, the betterment of me. I stand true to my original post, and wish GC happiness, luck and good fortune in finding what she searches for and well deserves. Well done GC for putting it out there.
Enjoy everyone, stay happy....
Chow
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gc
cant believe how hard its been, you had many replies
