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is anyone meeting up on this site?????

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my take on things Simone, you have a very jaded veiw of the world, if its really as bad as you say, maybe you shouldnt be swinging. We have met single women, single men, and couples, all from here and have had a great time with all of them some we played with most we didnt. To the thread starter i say, you have no chance with your profile the way it is and your forum posts being what they are. Why would we choose you? As a couple we wont play with married men or women whose partners are unaware of the swinging. How do we confirm this? We talk to their partners, if they wont let us then they arent for real, too easy. There are quite a few genuine single girls on here, how do we know? We have met them, lol Wont give you names, they know who they are. Thanks girls xxx. I (Mr2B), got us into swinging, but mrs has kept us there, it is certainly a two way street in our house, we both love it. And i know there are girls/guys out there that only do it to keep their marriages intact, but in our experience they are in the minority and easy to spot. We dont play with those types. In short, if you are prepared to put the time in on here, you will meet some lovely people. Putting the time in means, going in the chatrooms, going on cam, posting in the forums and making yourself known. There are no short cuts in life and if you are here just for a quick fuck its probably not the place for you There are way to many wankers in this world, you need to proove you arent one of them. lol 2BNorti PS,the wife proof read this for me and she agrees with it all
well said 2bnorti u hit the nail right on the head wink
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Cmon guys and girls, this is supposed to be a swingers site!!
I have posted four forums, had 100 odd people look at them, and not one message!
Is anyone serious on here or just pissed and playing the flirt?
Feedback would be appreciated.
Cheers
Coen

You say you're divorced, but then refer to Mrs Coen in your profile? As been said previously you need a blue box and a total re-write of your profile page to have any chance of success.
And singles that claim to have a "fuck buddy" should have a couples profile if they genuinely do play together.
You're spot on Coen, I dont think virtually anyone is who, and what, they say they are on this site. I think most are time-wasters and dreamers. I'm honest on my profile and in my posts, but getting tired of wannabes who contact me or arrange a meet, (accepting of my true status), and then dont turn up, or dont follow through without letting me know. One couple constantly offer pics and meets, but dont respond or show up at all !!!!!!!! Where are the moderators ?? Why no action on this ?? Are there other sites anyone has used with better responses ?? Please let me know if you know of any. Will
i will say this again williek try going to the meet and greets and meeting ppl first at a social place then see if anyone wants to hook up later
Been here 3 weeks been to 1 meet n greet going to another this weekend coming and met some real nice peoples. We jumped in head first lucky it was the deep end :P Ohhh who ever said it was for the guy to shag other women .... well not from this couple....
Mate had the same issues.....still have not met anyone on this site but have on another. For starters put up some photos. I found this generated a lot more interest. Secondly send through some messages and have a chat. People don't want to just be asked for a fuck. I even went to the trouble of getting a motel room near the park. Gave the option of motel or dogging... Lots of interest but unfortunately no follow through.....what next ? Keep trying or move on... Wether we like it or not they are the choices unless you can organise a women to join you as a couple and that might increase your chances. Personally part of the fun for me is the thrill of the hunt and you do get to have some interesting conversations along the way. Good luck.... Jo..
Moderators are right here... BUT what we dont do is ensure people meet up.... If complaints about fake profiles are bought to us we do follow them up...BUT cant do that if we are not told. It is called MANNERS......we do have the SH Rep system which allows members to have futher information about each other, these are not permitted to be abuse but you do have the opportunity to comment on if the person shows up or not. Bikie is very right when she says come along to meets and greets, meet people, enjoy a decent conversation and you never know what will happpen. Sadly some here expect easy sex..... and since when is anything in life ever easy.... HONESTY is key here, couples and singles are sick to death of lies....if you are married say so, if you have a FB say so, if you are single say so...and most of all .....RESPECT!!!! Have a good day All wink
Thanks Jazz for your answer. You're agreeing with me in most ways - sick of lies from members.
If someone is offering what you call "easy sex", (as most posts do), they should at least have the couertesy to let you know they're not going to turn up to pre-arranged meets !! Most people have contact numbers before a planned meet, if not a PM on here.
I ]amhonest in my Profile. Shame most others aren't.
Will
Will.... You missed the point of reporting "fake" profiles... People speak of time wasters and 'single males' pretending to be couples ..... If I can simply make people understand we want to know about this .... You asked ... Where are the moderators ?? Why no action on this ?? As I stated ... we are here BUT cannot do anything if its not reported to us. With meets and greets ..... they are great fun and Ive met some of the best people there smile .... I look forward to seeing other views on this .....