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Sex God
maybe it does happen just you dont know about it and it involves someone else
Melbcpl01
Sexlightened
G'day mate
Not sure exactly what it is you're asking about > tho as you say in your profile "no photos on site as I work in a public office"
It could be that others here wish to ask for players, but do not wish or need to brag about their actual meetings
Just a guess...
Regards, phil
Quote by jojo2202
.... Why is it that there is so much bravado and yet when it comes to it everyone is gun shy ...?????
Not sure exactly what it is you're asking about > tho as you say in your profile "no photos on site as I work in a public office"
It could be that others here wish to ask for players, but do not wish or need to brag about their actual meetings
Just a guess...
Regards, phil
Master of Sex
I've never had a problem here so I'm not sure what the go is there. Must just be lucky or extremely attractive lol
We had a laugh at that comment, what do you think swinging is, its couples sharing there sexuality
As far as bravado goes overwhelmingly its the rat bag's who feel a need to brag and flaunt meetings to bolster whats missing in thier personal cred.
it seems so many guys think they are due and it should fall in there lap, even couples have to develop and sustain a relationship in chat and email, phone, dinners and drinks.
Finding the right " other" couple doesnt just happen, and more often than not something is not quite right and that needs to be overcome, nothing comes for nothing.
Quote by OKandQ
We had a laugh at that comment, what do you think swinging is, its couples sharing there sexuality
As far as bravado goes overwhelmingly its the rat bag's who feel a need to brag and flaunt meetings to bolster whats missing in thier personal cred.
it seems so many guys think they are due and it should fall in there lap, even couples have to develop and sustain a relationship in chat and email, phone, dinners and drinks.
Finding the right " other" couple doesnt just happen, and more often than not something is not quite right and that needs to be overcome, nothing comes for nothing.
Beautifully stated OKandQ
Sex God
Quote by jojo2202
maybe it does happen just you dont know about it and it involves someone else
Melbcpl01
kind of comment i expected from a couple. I know it happens I have already been there. I was refering more to this site
You asked we answered what more can we say ? not everyone makes common knowlage of who and how often they meet others , this site would be no different to any other no matter if your a guy , girl or cpl
Melbcpl01
Sexlightened
Quote by jojo2202your so right Jojo i find most ar too shy or never intended to meet Well thats my opinion
So many people with adds - horny and wanting to meet or activities stating dogging etc but don't seem to ever actually follow through. Why is it that there is so much bravado and yet when it comes to it everyone is gun shy ...?????
Hey Jojo what you might want to keep in mind is that a lot of the ppl on here are a part of a couple. Most couples that swing have certain things they are looking for, or they have a collective group of ppl they like to meet with. As for us, we do not meet with single males at all. You will have much better luck by reading ppls profiles as to what they ACTUALLY want, and Only respond to ads asking for single males etc. We have a very successful swinging relationship on this site and love it here.
Good Luck.
The Wannas :wave2:
Many guys on here suffer the delusion that its about them, you guys are a dime a dozen and change to boot .
The Wanna's are great community swinger couple youve had good advice but so many here seem to want to win a point rather than learn and succeed in the social mix of swinging , like so many social interactions you can win the battle but lose the war if your not careful.
I do believe jojo was making a mention about how there are so many people organising things on here yet a lot of it seems to fall through or never happen in the end...
Which tends to happen a lot on sites like this. You get people who like the fantasy more than the reality, and then the ones who dont wanna be rude and say no so they tend to go along with it and never show up...
I dont think he was making an assumption based on people not wanting to meet him because he is a male.
Sexlightened
So the OP asks...
and there are many delightful responses
May I add my 2-cent's worth
Over the 4-6 months that we've been on the site, we've contacted others who, from their profile & location seemed of interest to us. About 2/3 have answered our PMs and we've met, chatted, wined & dined with them to check 'em out, to see what chemistry is there etc etc before playing with them if it all worked out ~ sometimes it did, othertimes it didn't
We are not out for a qwik fukk, the 'wham-bam-thankyou mam - what was your name again?' sort of qwikkie that leaves no-one satisfied
We have no intentions of standing on a roof top and shouting to the world who we've played with or how many times we've played with them. To do so would be very rude and breaking the very basic 'rule' of privacy and confidentiality. To quote from the entertainment industry... 'what happens on the road stays on the road'
I do sometimes look at the postings from 'young single guys' and read their text, feeling that "if I was a female in that age group there's no way I would offer to become a fukk-buddy following that sort of text invitation". Maybe I'm old fashioned, but to my thinking, 'you catch your fish via the best bait' and that is usually nice conversation and maybe wining & dining. If you aren't prepared to do that, then go and buy your fish 'n chips - as well as your sexual services
Regards, Phil
Quote by jojo2202
So many people with adds - horny and wanting to meet or activities stating dogging etc but don't seem to ever actually follow through. Why is it that there is so much bravado and yet when it comes to it everyone is gun shy ...?????
and there are many delightful responses
May I add my 2-cent's worth
Over the 4-6 months that we've been on the site, we've contacted others who, from their profile & location seemed of interest to us. About 2/3 have answered our PMs and we've met, chatted, wined & dined with them to check 'em out, to see what chemistry is there etc etc before playing with them if it all worked out ~ sometimes it did, othertimes it didn't
We are not out for a qwik fukk, the 'wham-bam-thankyou mam - what was your name again?' sort of qwikkie that leaves no-one satisfied
We have no intentions of standing on a roof top and shouting to the world who we've played with or how many times we've played with them. To do so would be very rude and breaking the very basic 'rule' of privacy and confidentiality. To quote from the entertainment industry... 'what happens on the road stays on the road'
I do sometimes look at the postings from 'young single guys' and read their text, feeling that "if I was a female in that age group there's no way I would offer to become a fukk-buddy following that sort of text invitation". Maybe I'm old fashioned, but to my thinking, 'you catch your fish via the best bait' and that is usually nice conversation and maybe wining & dining. If you aren't prepared to do that, then go and buy your fish 'n chips - as well as your sexual services
Regards, Phil
Sexpert
Without knowing the details, perhaps its just that you havent been provided the finer details such as time, location etc of the posted meets.
We would find that when we are told actual times, places to be or provide it to selective people, that there is always someone there except for a few standard rules we try to follow.
First timers - we expect or assume they get nervous and on occasions have been proved correct
The guys that want every detail before hand such as will she do this, will she do that....the more questions beyond time, place the less likely that they show.
And sorry to say, those without pics (we all have jobs and lives away from SH), way too many whom you can decide on before hand based on a picture than to gamble - we prefer the casino 
But we do hope that you find more play from forum posts - it would mean Brisbanes pumping again (pardon the pun)
But we do hope that you find more play from forum posts - it would mean Brisbanes pumping again (pardon the pun) 