Sexpert
Hello everyone,
Just wondering how many of you had any sexual fun with an Indian- couple, male or female? How was the experience?
I am Indian living in Oz and curious, that's all. ;)
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Sexpert
Absolutely Love Indian Ladies...
I have been chatting to an young Indian lady (off this site now) for a few months = she is incredibly sexy and always beautifully made up and dressed... her hubby is quiet OK with her chatting to me as I obviously pose no threat to him as I am elderly and happily married and she enjoys her our interaction together. I have chatted to other Indian people on SH and always find them very polite and well mannered - just wish many others would follow their example. :welcome:
Like bbinder, I absolutely love the look of Indian women, however I think your question is how to women/couples respond to Indian men.
We have met men of Indian background, and have enjoyed the experience. My missus has played with several Indian men, young and mature, and had a good time. Personality, and eventually sexual ability in a man is more important to my missus than anything else. I suspect the same is true for most women, although I would never really hazard a guess as to how they think. 
Sexpert
Thank you for your comments bbinder and ozdude. I've met some great Aussie couples and thoroughly enjoyed their company too.
In our experience, Indian guys who were mainly raised here are usually fine, but many (not all) Indian guys who have come here more recently often bring with them cultural attitudes towards women that aren't very nice. Women who have sex before marriage or who sleep around are viewed as having low morals and can be used and abused by any man. Based on the attitudes we've witnessed from most of the Indian guys we've chatted to, sad to say but it kind of puts us off all Indian guys. We've also heard it reported that many prostitutes won't see Indian clients because of the rude and degrading manner they so often encounter.
Of course, those attitudes aren't exclusive to Indian guys either. I recall a caucasian user on here recently presenting his view that he felt women who go to swingers parties should service any guy who lines up for a go. 
Warming the Bed
We had a lovely time with a young Indian guy. We'd have him back over... want to take some pictures... black on white... very hot.
Sex God
Being a Aussie guy and married to a indian lady i must say yeh its so sexy 
Sexpert
Hi TemptedTwo,
I value your frank opinion. As rightly mentioned by you, there are these good, bad and ugly people everywhere in the world. It is not just Indians with cultural attitude problems.
Orgasminator
for me, nope, not going anywhere near another indian man if I can help it. I have had nothing but problems. Even the few that have seemed quite nice to start with, once the clothing comes off, turned into disrespectful asshats. Not to mention the overabundance of rude indian men at places like Shed. There are a lot of rude men at Shed, indian and otherwise
I know it isn't all indian men, men of all nations (and women too) can be horrible, but in my case, the ones I have met have made me extremely wary of men from that ethnic background
We have a few Indian men at a swinger party we go to regularly. Even though it is equal numbers they don't bring a partner because they would never take their wives/ girlfriends to a swinger party. They would never share. Male view
I have played with a couple of these Indian men. They expect everything from the woman but give nothing back. They are mostly not well endowed which wouldn't be a problem if they knew how to use what they have to give pleasure. I would consider them to be duds. And their attitude to women does not help. Female view
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We have a few Indian men at a swinger party we go to regularly. Even though it is equal numbers they don't bring a partner because they would never take their wives/ girlfriends to a swinger party. They would never share. Male view
I have played with a couple of these Indian men. They expect everything from the woman but give nothing back. They are mostly not well endowed which wouldn't be a problem if they knew how to use what they have to give pleasure. I would consider them to be duds. And their attitude to women does not help. Female view
We tend to agree with juswannahavfun. Our experiences are similar to those of juswannahavfun. Some Indian gents failed to observe the 'no means no' rule or the female's wishes. Not that it is exclusive to just Indian men, just seems to occur more often than not. It is a shame that Indian men will not take their wives to a swingers party, a little cultural exchange will be a lot of fun. Maybe the Indian ladies could show us Aussie men how awesome they are ;)
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Wouldn't say all Indian men don't share
Of course it's all a generalisation. However there is no doubt that culturally Indians on the whole have a different attitude to women (especially promiscuous women) than Australians do. An attitude that many Australian swingers would consider misogynistic and disrespectful, to the point of being offensive (note: there are plenty of Aussies with these terrible attitudes too). It's kind of ironic since India is the home of the Kama Sutra and many ancient frescoes and statues often depicting women topless and very busty.
Fortunately there are sexy Indian people to be found who are much more open and respectful.
darkstud - ask yourself, being truly honest with yourself (you don't have to post your answer here), how would you feel if you discovered your own sister, cousin, or adult daughter willfully had sex with several other men, perhaps even multiple men at once? That she went along to sex clubs and paraded her naked body around for everyone to see. That she would eagerly get down on her knees and suck the cock of a stranger who took her fancy. Would you be happy that she's strong enough in herself to do whatever it is that she wants to do? Or would you be a little bit ashamed of her? I think every man (regardless of race) who considers playing with swingers should ask themselves that question, and if ashamed is the answer then maybe leave swinging alone.
Sexpert
Looking for feedback from others who have had the experience of being with an Indian single or couple
