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Forum Virgin
And not being complacent. Meeting someone new stimulates all the senses. Familiatiry breeds contents
Reading thru this.. it comes across to me that there are a lot of valid points from both sides.. I have to say.. being a single female.. we are the most sort after on these kind of sites and unfortunately for the males, they are not so... Guys, this is very very simple.. see someone you like... read their profile.. if they have it stated or ticked they are into single guys.. send a msg if you like.. not a wink.. a msg.. take time to respond to what they have said in their profile.. it shows you have read and more importantly understood what they are after...if they do not respond, its because they are not interested.. Move on.. its really not hard and there are plenty of couples and singles on here so go look again.. please dont get the shits because they didnt respond, there will be various reasons why they dont but there is no point getting shitty about it.. we are all here for fun.. friendships come if thats what your after and sex happens if you are wanted.. there is plenty of other sites for single guys to pick up, you dont have to leave this one but be aware of the fact its a swingers website.. not a dating one.. everyone is here for the same reasons but you may not be what they are after and if your attitude is rude then you will get nothing...And a tip.... be nice to the mods.. they do a great job and deserve some respect for that.. YOU might not be the arsehole but trust me there are plenty that are and the mods help EVERYONE.....Have a great day..
Adding to Lindy's comments, nobody is under any obligation to respond to any message sent on this site or for any email received for that matter.
I do get bombarded with messages and I can choose to reply to the ones that I can see have taken the trouble to read my profile, are well written or funny or you have a connection to.
Its my choice to reply or not.
When you apply for a job advert, do you throw a tantrum when you dont get selected or their HR dept doesnt get back to you - its life, move on...or have a tanty when fishing, putting the bait on the line but still the fish just swim past all your tactics..hmmm?
I have been on this site for a while now and I have met some really lovely single guys. Their initial messages caught my interest, I connected to them through their style of writing and they turned up for a coffee meet when arranged.
But I did leave this site for a number of months as I was sick of being hassled and people not turning up to arranged meets. I am a lot stricter about replying to messages now as its isn't worth all the angst.
The good people shine through
Rude, abrasive people aren't really tolerated
Warming the Bed
just because somebody carn`t spell properly dosen`t make them stupid & yes there are wankers out there who think thay are gods gift to everybody. but please don`t judge us as the same person as some of us dont judge you
Forum Virgin
We don't feel obligated to talk to anyone. We couldn't possibly care less if the people we don't want to talk to think we are snobs. Why would we?
Yes reading the pro's and con's of this debate did bring the odd tear to our eye's.
As a gesture of good will towards the single bloke majority on this site, we feel each couple should adopt a disadvantaged single fellow for a period of one month, for the purpose of educating them in the social grace's required for making meaningful social interaction. A sort of finishing school, if you will.
So what do you think and how should we allocate who get's who? 
Sex God
Quote by nomads_oz
Yes reading the pro's and con's of this debate did bring the odd tear to our eye's.
As a gesture of good will towards the single bloke majority on this site, we feel each couple should adopt a disadvantaged single fellow for a period of one month, for the purpose of educating them in the social grace's required for making meaningful social interaction. A sort of finishing school, if you will.
So what do you think and how should we allocate who get's who?
oh i so love that thought.
In so many ways
Warming the Bed
wow that was an interesting read. so all couples that don't respond to single men are snobs and all single men have the right to fuck any woman because the man in the relationship MUST be inferior in some way. and this is a swingers site so all people want is a fuck? WTF
ok from our point of view we have stated in our profile we are not after single men. Even though this is clearly written we still get single men sending us messages to check out their profile. WE WILL NOT RESPOND! We only get annoyed when they clearly haven't read our profile. I love showing my wife off and she loves showing herself, this does not give anyone the right to say she is a slut, easy or think they are due a shag because she puts it out. We do it for us and no one else.
We'll happily talk to single guys in the chatroom until they start demanding pics or PM when they haven't even asked if they can.
But once you start talking to us the same message will come out, we have done the mmf thing and want to try couples or mff. How hard is that?
On the other hand Gina will not talk to people unless I say they are ok. So guys if you want her you need to go through me first. Call it what you want but that is the way it is and that goes for couples as well.
If we do decide to USE a single bloke again it will be on our terms not theirs. If you can't live with that then don't talk to us.
Are we snobs? No we know what we like and want. If you are respectful to us here then you have a better chance of meeting us. If you are rude then..........
T
Master of Sex
Quote by nomads_oz
oh i so love that thought.
In so many ways
Thought it may temp your interest Rose? Ok so how are we going to make it work?
I want to be adopted so that I can feel the love lol
Quote by Infinite_Sky
should we have an adopt a male night on site?
Sammi what a magnificent idea. We only need to nut out pro forma for the allocation process. And we even have our first offering as well. Given your obvious leadership talents, we herewith hand the project over to your good self for birthing!!
Sex God
Quote by nomads_oz
should we have an adopt a male night on site?
Sammi what a magnificent idea. We only need to nut out pro forma for the allocation process. And we even have our first offering as well. Given your obvious leadership talents, we herewith hand the project over to your good self for birthing!!
birthing -------- :sticky: oh my...
oops going - :) nice ones sky.. let the birthing... go on 
Master of Sex
Quote by Infinite_Sky
should we have an adopt a male night on site?
:thumbup: would be fun ... I pity the poor couple who ends up with me :small-print:
