People who do not turn up at parties and do not even bother sending an apology

My beef is about a lack of decency from couples and singles who have accepted a party invitation and then not show up.

I had a party planned for last night,  six couples were confirmed, as well as one single lady and four single guys.  Only TWO guys showed up, regular attendees to my parties.  There were two apologies, one from a couple and the single lady. None of the others bothered to text me or send me a message.  There is only one word for this and that is total Rudeness. How would they feel if the boot was on the other foot and nobody showed up to their party after having spent a fair bit of time and money arranging and catering for  it.

I have held numerous parties in the past but no more, if people are going to be this rude  then I do not want to know them. 

It is a pity that SwingersHeaven does not have a Name and Shame board as these people should be on it, it might teach them a lesson in good manners.

you should name and shame them we have done it

Unfortunately naming and shaming will only get you banned from the site. It isn't allowed. You can, however, inform the admins, although I'm not sure what they can do. This is a rampant problem, which may be solved by meeting somewhere like Shed16 or WOW, where if members of your group don't show, you can still have a great time

Although that would only work in Melbourne, but I'm sure you have venues near you that can be used

Yes, it is a problem that even us mods have had to deal with. There is nothing that the site can do about things that happen off site, we can only deal with issues in the site. We keep a list of anyone who stuffs us around and if they contact again they do not get a second chance.

Yes, I know all about it.  We decided to step away from our regular gathering of swinger friends for our fortnightly romp.  We hosted an orgy on Sunday 24 July 1pm. 23 confirmed guests from this site, approx 8 turned up, most a few hours late. Received one text apologizing with reason cple couldn't come. one text from guy who was going through an issue. Everyone who did turn up were people we played with before, except one male.  it was not an orgy. There was a foursome though if that counts, lol. and Oh yes, and one couple just caught me just then on mesenger enquiring how party went. i said shit, they said wonder y then gave their reason y they didn't talk to me 2 days ago, then.....said next time we wont let you down... did I invite them again?  sorry.  Bad manners piss me off.