Dont you hate it when you chat with people online and by text work out a suitable time for coffee or drinks get ready put off other things then they dont show up and ignore your texts and calls. We had a coffee meet this morning but the couple we were meeting just didnt show, have heard nothing. You go through the "hope nothing has happened, to we have been stood up".
Makes you think is it worth the hassle, but of course it is, for the no shows there are plenty of freinds made and some friends with benifits. Now who is out there mmmmm
Being a newbie, no shows really make us think twice. Our time is precious to us and we have children, so when we can meet, a lot of organisation has to go into. Was let down with a meet and greet organised last Friday. Couples say yes there coming then dissapear and don't contact you. Out of 8 couples, 1 couple showed, who were really nice. Going through the friends list now, as this isn't Facebook , and won't be adding friends anymore. If genuinely interested, send an email and pics and we'll send ours, No more time wasters for us!
Yep every adult site has them not just here , nothing worse that setting up a meet and ends up a non event where the other party dont show up , will not answer phone calls or give you a call to let you know whats going on
Think they get off on setting up dates they will never turn up too
Melbcpl01
shrep is a wonderful tool some times
always a hard one talk longer make sure everything "feels right" before asking to meet more like inevitable than pushed to the fore.
we have met many hundreds of people from meetngreet to private meets to clubs and the close rate is about 4% these are totally compatible on the same page great swinging experiences
There's a lot to be said for the club party environment.
our Mottos with " No shows" with no reasonably acceptable reason ,,,,,,,,One strike and you're out.... no exceptions
PJ
as far as I'm concerned, there is no reasonable excuse for a no show. Call me beforehand and cancel - even if it's a couple of minutes, or wihtin the half hour of the meet or do't bother contacting me again.