after this week im wondering if this is an adult site
a woman who is really nice getting asked about her sex life then being told by a male that he doesnt know why its good, shes too fat to fit on a cam. to that "male" keep your mouth shut. our oppinion of you may be the same
abuse for stupid things, arguements on 4 different days about shit that is so unimportant i dont know why it even started.
i know people have oppinions but ffs if you dont like something ignore it or say hey guys that makes me feel uncomfortable.
abuse or bad comments about tv/ts cross dressers etc, who cares what theyre doing, its thier choice and a bloody big decision. dont run them down. if its not your thing good but we dont care. take people as they are, were all screwed up in some way. not saying your screwed up if your a tv/ts etc, the couple i chat to are really nice and they know who they are
thank you for allowing my venting
Mr Two
please feel free to vent at me lol
all very correct and true Mr Two..
The Rule of Behaviour is...
If you are not brave enough to shout your comments, suggestions or observations in a crowded Sydney bar late on a Saturday night, then don't say them in the chat rooms.
Inappropriate comments made under anonymity does not make you brave, just stupid....
Mr two we agree we have seen some shocking comments made on this site and wonder where some peoples brains are,If the shoe was on the other foot they would be the first to whinge but this seems to be the way the site is heading.
Every in this site deserves to do what they like as long as it doesnt hurt or go outside the rules,From what we remember this site is for adults.
If you see something you dont like then turn it off,If you make abusive or insulting comments just to make a big person of end up being the loser,Other people on this site have feelings and beauty is on the inside only shallow people think beauty is on the outside :confused:.
The best way to stamp this out is to report it to mods or admin (copy and paste comments add time and date of comment.
cheers
needachange
i must say i totally agree some people dont act very grown up ......why join a site like this if you feel the need to be pushy because some one is honest enough to say sorry but your not my type after you have inboxed pics that were not asked for ... i mean really its better to be honest than to lead some one on
totally agree mr twonewbies
and others
as mods on site we see some terrible things said, but we also get things reported to us that we dont see or that happen during mod absence....
its funny though, those immature people with the big mouths, never cam up yet have the gall to voice their opinions on others who do.
Yes we are all supposed to be adults, and there are some who have no idea what respect means, one wonders why these are the same people who complain they never get "fun"on the site.
Totally can see how this happens...popped into tonight and many
intepret your profile according to their desire ....
not fun ~!!!
how anyone manages chat has got me beat!!
First things first... Miss Sensual, having looked at your profile, we must say there's nothing wrong with you! ;-). Why do so many hotties live in WA, damnit?
That aside, we must add our weight to pretty much everything that has been said here.
Our mums always taught us that if you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything (or at least say it in whisper to your mates...lol)
Fortunately, as non-mods, we aren't forced to look at the cams, but when we do (which isn't all that often), and see something we don't find desireable, or, in many cases, something that we find just gross, we just close that cam & move on.
Maybe this is getting a tad off topic, and I apologise if it is...
It was said in another post in the forums that there are lots of people with undesireable features on this site, but there is always someone who finds them attractive (I think it was termed "...that would fuck them". That's what we're all about here.
Something that is learned over a decent period of time on a site like this is that it's a numbers game. So many "newbies" come along and get pissed off when they haven't scored a threesome with a gorgeous bisexual girl within the first few days, and unfortunately, many of these people vent their frustrations in chat. We have seen soooo much of that in the ten years we have been around, and just laugh at it now, because we know they won't be around in a couple of weeks time.
Jesus. Have we been around ten years? Hope we score soon!
Have a great weekend everyone.
A & J
One of the large flaws that we as humans have, is that often that which we demand and expect of others we ourselves fail to deliver unto them, and sadly the internet allows all of this to go on in anonymity which breeds courage in those for whom courage is a word found in a dictionary.
For many people, the world is theirs to demand, but not to give and sadly someone must always (unfairly and undeservedly) be blamed and then bear teh brunt of these individuals frustrations.
One must wonder at what stage in their lives these puny minded will realise that for them, masturbation is their future partner as they themselves are certainly only to blame for their preicament of not having that intimacy that sex brings and breeds. To these people we say move on and continue in your search of 'blindness by hand' and by all means blame others until that fateful day when you wake up in a sticky mess and need the company of a real living breathing loving human.
Newbies, please do not let the typing fingers of a few brainless buffoons temper your eagerness as MrsNewbies is an attractive person and whilst certainly none of us are everyone's idea of perfection, it is not for us or anyone to criticise but all to sadly rejection does that.
So we say stay happy, stay horny and enjoy those for whom you provide the ultimate enjoyment ................ being yourself
we know, we here you all. Must make them feel big.
thing is, if everyone who didn't like the site just left, without saying why they didn't like it, then the site would stagnate. Life is always in a state of flux.
..so how do we change this reality and this perception that majority of males on this site are stereotypical dickheads...We all have the same image of these people.
What is so sad ( and it happens in so many walks of life) is that it is the idiots who destroy the opportunity for the many many respectful males out there. We are in the same boat as many couples - we want to explore in middle or later life many things that have been denied us in the past...we are clean decent, can hold a conversation.
If we could separate the dickheads from the desirables, then we could have an adult website where we could chat, and meet as adults and get to tick those boxes that otherwise remain unticked...
It frustrates men, as well as couples, and particularly single ladies, that our collective enjoyment is curtailed because of those that don't have the intelligence to understand that being abusive or selfish achieves nothing. Case in point - , how many dogging meets, and adult parties are spoilt because the dickheads turn up in the droves and expect to get "serviced" - Guys - if you fit the category, then get off this site, go and pay for a working lady to get rid of your need to "use" someone for your own gratification and stop stuffing it up for everyone else... then maybe, maybe, those of us who want to be "swingers" (and not males who need a shag), can enjoy this site for what it tries to be.
Nicely said, Friday.
For our part, we spend a fair bit of our time on the site in the "Pool" chat room. Although, like many couples, we don't actively search out males, nor do we generally look at male profiles, we have befriended a few very nice guys from the site - and will most likely end up inviting the odd one over for a fondle.
In answer (of sorts) to your question, our advice to the guys would be to simply participate in general chat, be respectful - not forceful, be humorous if that's your style, and also have a few tasteful pics (not 10 of your cock from different angles) and a decent amount of well thought out text (ie; at least a couple of good paragraphs) about yourself in your profile.
If you do this, you will generally find that you will become known, recognised, maybe even popular, and things will more or less start happening for you by default.
Regards,
A & J
This is one of the best threads I have read on here for some time. We have been members for a couple of years (I think), and our situation has changed and it is now mostly Mr. I engage in chat, cam sometimes (clothed), don't whisper unsolicited and say hi to people. What I find is that it is only a select few (those that have been here a while) manage to say hi, even when you address people by name.
I have made some good friends, met a couple of them and generally enjoyed my time here. My biggest bug bear is what was said earlier, " are you prepared to shout down the street what you would say in a chat room", with the other being honesty. If you can't be honest, what really is the use, because if/when you do meet the truth finally comes out.
Have fun, live life and I always say, life is an experiment, but the more experiments you have the better. :smile:
I havent been mean in so long 
Admin wont keep me, if i dont keep me rep lol :twisted:
:twisted: :twisted:
aj, 10 years !!!!! wow your old :happy:
when mrs two was abused mods did a great job of it, thank you all mods for thier time given for free
rose dont pretend, we know your a beautiful and loving person (mushy hugs) :angel:
everybody has flaws, everyone has beauty. if your polite then your 3/4 of the way there.
beauty is only skin deep but ugly cuts to the bone
also thanks to the polite deviates who chat to mrs two, its been a real confidence boost to her and has been great watching her come out of her shell and grow,
thank you all
Mr_Two
