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Do you use condoms?
just tell the men to cover up! ;)You should make sure YOU have condoms on your person. I mean if you don't have them, why should he?(not that either of you shouldn't have them on you) Think of it this way... what name did you want for your baby? or how did you want to tell the doctor where that rash came from etc. Just be safe! Can't stress that more than anything else.
For sex yes! But my ex used to want to use them for everything, which sorta took the fun out of things! 
mgrin:
Your ex used condoms for everything? I was beginning to wonder if i was the only one who wore condoms on a day to day basis. I mean junior can't be exposed to the elements like that. He needs clothes too. So that being said, You in sydney? Would you like to meet my condom wearing junior? He can get naked too, you know :grin:
mgrin:Your ex used condoms for everything? I was beginning to wonder if i was the only one who wore condoms on a day to day basis. I mean junior can't be exposed to the elements like that. He needs clothes too. So that being said, You in sydney? Would you like to meet my condom wearing junior? He can get naked too, you know :grin:
yes... every time.
Sometimes it takes a lot of searching in travel bags, under the bed, etc. to find a lot one tough. If we are really out of them we just do oral.
I would have no problem with that, for sure. I prefer doing it the old fashioned way, but I also like getting a little oral attention. You're my kind of woman!
Sometimes it takes a lot of searching in travel bags, under the bed, etc. to find a lot one tough. If we are really out of them we just do oral.
I would have no problem with that, for sure. I prefer doing it the old fashioned way, but I also like getting a little oral attention. You're my kind of woman!
Yes I use it everytime even with my girlfriend. It's not that I don't trust her, She is having sex with others and you would never know. Even as careful as you are, diseases can get to you. I got cold sores now and I have no idea how I got them. Condoms are not just a choice anymore. It has become necessary.
To my great surprise, I found lot of people last week who haven't used condoms in over 10 years. They certainly don't have any disease! So that re-assures my belief that STDs are a govt progoganda! They are jealous of us having sex all the time. So don't give in to these fears people. Have sex. all day. all the time.
I haven't been using condoms for a long time. I know it is not the smartest move from my side. My bf hates condoms. He doesn't like it at all. Well, he is my bf and I want to trust him. I thought I shouldn't let a small thing like condom get in the way of our relationship. The more I listen to people here, I understand diseases are very real and around us. I will try to make him aware of the risks out there.
Forum Virgin
You know the funny thing about people who insist upon using condoms is that when it comes to Oral sex condoms suddenly don't matter any more..?
HIV only needs one entry point.
Bringing this thread back to lif
I saw what preacher said about the blowjob and HIV thing. Is that true? Can you get HIV from giving a head job? well without a cut or something i mean.
I thought you were sweet with head, seriously u would have to say 99% of people dont wrap up for a blowie
Quote by user=weeder
To my great surprise, I found lot of people last week who haven't used condoms in over 10 years. They certainly don't have any disease! So that re-assures my belief that STDs are a govt progoganda! They are jealous of us having sex all the time. So don't give in to these fears people. Have sex. all day. all the time.
Weeder, please tell me you are taking the piss...Do we really need more crazy conspiracy theorists around?
Forum Virgin
Oral Sex and the Risk of HIV Transmission
The risk of HIV transmission from an infected partner through oral sex is much smaller than the risk of HIV transmission from anal or vaginal sex. Because of this, measuring the exact risk of HIV transmission as a result of oral sex is very difficult. In addition, since most sexually active individuals practice oral sex in addition to other forms of sex, such as vaginal and/or anal sex, when transmission occurs, it is difficult to determine whether or not it occurred as a result of oral sex or other more risky sexual activities. Finally, several co-factors can increase the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex, including: oral ulcers, bleeding gums, genital sores, and the presence of other STDs. When scientists describe the risk of transmitting an infectious disease, like HIV, the term 'theoretical risk' is often used. Very simply, 'theoretical risk' means that passing an infection from one person to another is possible, even though there may not yet be any actual documented cases. 'Theoretical risk' is not the same as likelihood. In other words, stating that HIV infection is 'theoretically possible' does not necessarily mean it is likely to happen—only that it might. Documented risk, on the other hand, is used to describe transmission that has actually occurred, been investigated, and documented in the scientific literature.
would be silly indeed to engage in sexual play with a randomer off a site without adequate protection , remember when you sleep with someone , your also sleeping with every single sexual unprotected conquest they have ever had .suddenly the idea of sex without protection isnt too appealing eh? :swingingchair:
Warming the Bed
suddenly the idea of sex without protection isnt too appealing eh?
It is even less appealing with. Choose your partner with care.
Warming the Bed
Sammi, I could not agree with you more and consider your few as correct when it comes to people who show no picture or place of residency on their profile.
Try a known and proofen clean male and FEEL the difference.
Sex God
We always use condoms when with another partner , just because someone has had a test done does not mean they are std free as they could have had many partners after the test or something may not have shown up in the test
To think its safe because of a piece of paper is just stupid and no reason to not practice safe sex
Melbcpl01
Sex God
Quote by walwal
suddenly the idea of sex without protection isnt too appealing eh?
It is even less appealing with. Choose your partner with care.
But you can never be too carefull or sure you could end up with a nasty rash so thats not appealing at all or being dead from aids/hiv now wouldn't that be even less appealing ?
Think we would sooner loose a bit of feeling over getting a nasty suprise after the act
To us not using protection is lack of respect for your own and others health and safety
Melbcpl01
Warming the Bed
You convinced meafter all these years, nothing beats a length of the good old biscyle inner tube.
To the statment further up, the risk for anal is 80%, vaginal 35% and oral 30%.
Women are 70% higher at risk then man. The HIV virus lifespan is very short out of the body.
A medical survey at a NSW town between Parramatta and Penrith with 4000 people has shown that no one was at risk.
I would not use the word stupid, for som it is natural sex, for others it is the safest sex of all, sitting behind a webcam.
It all boils down to finding the right partner, possibly from a married couple with a identical outlook on safety.
I am sure some people will use a condom even with their own partner in marriage, lets face it, the risk is the same!
Sex God
There is only one true way to play safe with someone other than your own partner , and thats to use a condom .
It does not matter what background the person your meeting to play with is from married , single what ever out look or state of mind they have
USE A CONDOM is the only safe way to think otherwise your just kidding yourself with the "it won't happen to me" state of mind
Melbcpl01
