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Do you use condoms?
ive had many years of long term relationships with two women and one was always condoms until trying for our son for afew months. The next was never used and i got tested after we broke up as i'd heard she may not have been faithful. I like to get tested regularly regardless. I use them all the time but only dont use when in a commited loving relationship where we both agree, though after reading some of the comments earlier im now concerned more about the partners! But id be lying if i said i always followed my rule...
Forum Virgin
I'm actually struggling to take in what's written in this thread. Wise up people. :shock:
Some of us are honest... and if I had an STI then I wouldn't be interviewing prospective partners! 
Seriously... sexual health clinic - everyone should find one and make an appointment. You should be having at least an annual check up, especially if you are having unprotected sex with different people. Take care of yourselves. Clearly too many people don't. Heheheheh
We have this scary safe sex vision
This crazy walking towards you.
Latex gloves , .....for fingering
Large condom over his head.....for giving oral
Tight latex body suit on .......in case and bodily fluids drip or wart / herpes virus touches his skin anywhere
Condom over his dick
Now we are safe:
Really everything has risk attached!
We agree with Dirtygirl go to the sex clinic establish your risk profile (not someone elses) and take the level protection you want from the risk you are willing to take.:swingingchair:
In an ideal world, I would much prefer to go bareback, it feels twice as good, and it feels so good to cum inside (and most girls prefer to feel me cum inside in my experience). But, using a condom makes it much easier to sleep at night afterwards!!! I used to only use them if the girl hinted or asked, but these days I'm a bit wiser, plus, if I were to become a father it would ruin my life. (kids are not in my plans for some years).
Sex God
Quote by sexstage
If a feamle is giving oral, then there is realy no point in putting a condom for other things.:bounce:
the female cant get pregnant by giving oral so your not exactly right there is a point for other things
Melbcpl01
Quote by melbcpl01
If a feamle is giving oral, then there is realy no point in putting a condom for other things.:bounce:
the female cant get pregnant by giving oral so your not exactly right there is a point for other things
Melbcpl01
This statement worries us:
If a female gives a guy oral, and the guy does not give the female oral.
Then the guy uses a condom for sex.
What can the female catch from the guy that she has given unprotected oral to, that she is likely to catch with unprotected sex? The chances may be smaller and therefore less risk.
Has both male and female taken equal risk or is risk being transfered to the female / our wives?
But you can win the lottery with a one in a mill chance or a one in 5 mill chance. :swingingchair:
Sexlightened
A while ago we were living in a large regional city (before we started swinging) where we knew a couple that played exclusively with three other couples. They thought they didn't need condoms given that they were being monogamous among themselves. They are all now HIV positive and no one has owned up to playing outside their arrangement (but some one must have!).
Makes you think
Fire
Do you promote condoms and dental dams for oral?
Under what conditions does the hiv spread?
What are hi risk activities....anal sex?...rimming? guy /guy anal sex?
Sex in overseas countries?
We are not against condoms for intercourse but say lets do safe sex proberly? and get professionaly advise not forum secretive postings.
Have you visted your local sex sex clinic for a assessment by intellegent professionals in the profession.
You are giving people false security by saying wear condoms and alls good!
My lady friend and i have been in the swinging scene for 15 years, we only use condoms with people that insist on using them.
We dont like them at all, we think its easier to screen new people and find it they are 'fuck anybody'swingers and in that case give them a wide birth anyway.
We are regular blood donors so have regular tests , we are yet to catch any stds at all.
We have never met anyone in the scene that has caught any stds from anyone.
wi11ie
Quote by wi11ie
My lady friend and i have been in the swinging scene for 15 years, we only use condoms with people that insist on using them.
We dont like them at all, we think its easier to screen new people and find it they are 'fuck anybody'swingers and in that case give them a wide birth anyway.
We are regular blood donors so have regular tests , we are yet to catch any stds at all.
We have never met anyone in the scene that has caught any stds from anyone.
wi11ie
We give high risk swingers a miss that:
Do Rimming
Anal Sex
male male sex / anal
sex overseas in 3rd country status
We have never had a STI in our lives currently tested and all clear.
We too can lay claim to we dont fuck anyone either.
When was the last time you visited a govt sex clinic and got a uncontional all clear without the need for monitoring ?
