just curious how many people actually no enough about this kink to understand it as I have only just recently taken the time to wrap my head around it properly and see it for what it wholy is and can be and im telling you after 10 years in the life style in the role of a Dom/Master I really like what I have found and wish to explore this side of myself and others a lot further.
so if anyone els shares my new found desires I would love to chat with you and see what I may learn and experience
ultimately I would like to find a little whome is looking for their Daddy so we can grow and learn togeather in this experience.
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Warming the Bed
There's something about the word "daddy" that just creeps us out a bit. As the Dom myself, I'd not want to be called that. 
Sir will do it for me though. 
or the Master and his Pet.
Admittedly though I haven't looked into what you may be describing so take my opinion with a grain of salt. Are you able to link what it is you've read and what it was that got your head around it?
Cheers,
~Lotus
Sir will do it for me though. or the Master and his Pet.
Admittedly though I haven't looked into what you may be describing so take my opinion with a grain of salt. Are you able to link what it is you've read and what it was that got your head around it?
Cheers,
~Lotus "Adult women with a child-like personality"? What a crock! Honestly? That all sounds like a paper thin excuse for harbouring fantasies about child molestation.
No, we're not having a go at you or in any way accusing you of such things - we're just expressing how the concept appears to us. Maybe we just don't "understand it". 
However... as long as it only involves [u:16d831e8e7]consenting adults[/u:16d831e8e7] then we have no problem what other people choose to do. People can't control their innermost fantasies, but as long as they control their actions then it's their business.
We might also argue that it's not all that different to the whole "schoolgirl" thing (except technically school girls can be of a consenting age).
However... as long as it only involves [u:16d831e8e7]consenting adults[/u:16d831e8e7] then we have no problem what other people choose to do. People can't control their innermost fantasies, but as long as they control their actions then it's their business.
We might also argue that it's not all that different to the whole "schoolgirl" thing (except technically school girls can be of a consenting age). Warming the Bed
Yeah. A bit different than I thought it was going to be.
~Lotus
~Lotus Quote by williek
Tempted, you are wrong. This is as real as agoraphobia or anxiety states - just not as "common".
Bossman, as long as all participants are, as Tempted says, "consenting adults"' go for it.
Have to admit I read this as well and I tend to agree with Tempted. Not arguing that it isn't real either. We tend to play dress ups as school girls etc. when we go to parties, may even play the role to some extent, but this seems like it is on a whole other level. Each to their own but still this kind of weird me out reading it. Just comes across as going through the motions of a fantasy but having adults play the role.
williek - I can understand that some women may enjoy engaging in a child-like state of mind, and that some men might enjoy the fatherly nurturing aspect. But when that childish/nurturing behaviour gets mixed with sex - that's where it seems wrong to us.
Honestly, when you cut straight to the core of it, doesn't this at least in part come down to a role play where the guy pretends he's fucking his juvenile daughter?!
It always seems to me you guys just arent doin it right, sex has always been fantastic and warming and a real fun experience
I just wonder where the swinging aspect of all this is , this site seems a magnet to any sexual pursuit and the rest of us good clean living swingers have to tolerate it .
at the end of the day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it has nothing what so ever to do with a father wanting to fuck his daughter
I thought there might have been a few more open minds in this forum I think I might reove the post because I though people may have taken the time to understand this for what it is and can be not brand myself as a pr a in the hiding I take personal offece to those remarks and now feel sick that people are so quick to brand someone with that iron
Bossman keep true to yourself. Take no notice of the ill-educated and judgmental.
Shame the Mods aren't as quick to ban the "chosen ones" for making derogatory insults, as they are to ban the rest of us for for pointing it out. (Been suspended twice for standing up for myself under the guise of "insulting behaviour").
As an experienced Psychologist, I can assure you that your thoughts and behaviour are not abnormal - just not mainstream.
You are not a if your partner is of legal age. Even the ignorant ones should be able to work that out !!!!
Sex God
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Bossman keep true to yourself. Take no notice of the ill-educated and judgmental.
Shame the Mods aren't as quick to ban the "chosen ones" for making derogatory insults, as they are to ban the rest of us for for pointing it out. (Been suspended twice for standing up for myself under the guise of "insulting behaviour").
As an experienced Psychologist, I can assure you that your thoughts and behaviour are not abnormal - just not mainstream.
You are not a if your partner is of legal age. Even the ignorant ones should be able to work that out !!!!
Really, you have to bring the mods into this???
Dont assume.... so far, I see good chatter, likes, dislikes, and some even learning, something new. GGEEESSS only insults, flowing seem to be from your comments, and not any one else. "experienced Psychologist" Doesnt make you, an expert, on mods. You have a problem, take it to management. Now lets get back to the subject.
Orgasminator
Bossman, this may not be 'quite' the right forum, as this is mainly a swinging site, not a fetish site. Do you have a profile on Fetlife? I know I have seen quite a few daddy doms there, as well as some of the girls (and boys) that love them.
WHile not my thing, I wish you luck in looking for your ideal partner
Quote by williek
Bossman keep true to yourself. Take no notice of the ill-educated and judgmental.
Shame the Mods aren't as quick to ban the "chosen ones" for making derogatory insults, as they are to ban the rest of us for for pointing it out. (Been suspended twice for standing up for myself under the guise of "insulting behaviour").
As an experienced Psychologist, I can assure you that your thoughts and behaviour are not abnormal - just not mainstream.
You are not a if your partner is of legal age. Even the ignorant ones should be able to work that out !!!!
Sorry, I had no idea people had to have a degree in Psychology to have an opinion or make an interpretation based on what they see. We all come from different backgrounds, experience and education levels and considering you have no idea what each person on here possesses, it is a pretty big call to say they are ill-educated. As I read it, no one has insulted bossman but merely commented on the spiel about Daddy Doms that he posted. Furthermore, no one called bossman a . People can stand up for themselves without insulting others in the process. If you have been suspended for standing up for yourself, then perhaps a different approach for getting your message across
I was rather enlightened by bossman's post, as I had no idea such a kink existed until now. I fail to see how anyone can 'value add' to a topic if we are being insulted every time we disagree with a point of view. What a boring world this would if we all agreed on a topic.
thank you haidee and bay couple your comments are very much appreciated
bay couple enlightenment was the main perpous of this post as I was not aware of this kink in deeper detail as I also never understood the daddy daughter thing and now I see how close minded I really was and now I look forward to learning more and finding where in may or may not take me
haidee yes i do have a profile on fetlife but don't spend a lot of time there as I find the site confusing to use at times
Baycouple, I agree with you. Everyone is entitled to an opinion - that's my point. Bossman is included in that.
I can't see how comments like:
I just wonder where the swinging aspect of all this is , this site seems a magnet to any sexual pursuit and the rest of us good clean living swingers have to tolerate it .
What a crock!
That all sounds like a paper thin excuse for harbouring fantasies about child molestation.
can be regarded as "adding value" to this post.
These are insults, pure and simple.
I can't see how comments like:
I just wonder where the swinging aspect of all this is , this site seems a magnet to any sexual pursuit and the rest of us good clean living swingers have to tolerate it .
What a crock!
That all sounds like a paper thin excuse for harbouring fantasies about child molestation.
can be regarded as "adding value" to this post.
These are insults, pure and simple.
