All the single guys!

2 Nov 2014

Let me start by saying, we like to play with single guys. Mrs loves a bit of strange, and Mr enjoys watching Mrs. Ok, that being said, I'd like to provide a list of single guy etiquette. Things to do and things not to do.
1. Punctuality: Be on time. Don't be fashionably late, or take the arranged time to be a mere suggestion.
2. Hygiene:Shower, dress in clean clothes, and do all of the personal grooming that one does when preparing for a date.
3. Always show respect to both partners of the couple.You are being invited into the private life of a couple, not just the lady. This doesn't mean to kiss his ass... just talk to him, consider his wants and needs, too. And no, this doesn't mean to go bi, if that's not your thing.
4. Do not overstay your welcome. If the couple is looking at the clock, or yawning, or seem to be more interested in each other, it's probably time to go home.
5. Dispose of your own condoms.
6. Don't sit around waiting for someone to say "Ok, let's fuck." Be proactive.Flirt. But also,
7. Don't jump the gun.You may be in the house, but you're not yet in bed. Pay attention to body language. If the couple are carressing each other, chances are, it's time to make your move.
8. Orgasms are not a score card.It's not a win if you make her squirt anymore than it is a loss if you don't. It's not a game, and the only way a playdate is a win, is if it's fun for all involved.
9. Not all women want their pussy licked for hours on end.The clitoris is very sensitive and prolonged stimulation can become unpleasant, even painful. It's not about you, and your ego. Treat the lady right, and she'll take good care of you.
10. Thank the couple for inviting you over.
Well, that's our Top Ten bits of advice for the swinging single guy. We're sure that other members have advice they'd like to add.
Mr Luv, and Mrs Curves.

4 Nov 2014

Very well said !

4 Nov 2014

Great forum post and very well said Luvcurves.. Hope it gets the attention it deserves.

4 Nov 2014

This not only applies to single guys... don't pimp out your new play friends without their permission or use them as bait to meet other couples etc. And along the same lines, just because you have chatted/messaged a single fem, does not mean she can be offered up with you as a "couple" to meet other couples. Cheers D & C xx

8 Nov 2014

I'm a single Guy .... well said luvcurves

Quote by luvcurves
Let me start by saying, we like to play with single guys. Mrs loves a bit of strange, and Mr enjoys watching Mrs. Ok, that being said, I'd like to provide a list of single guy etiquette. Things to do and things not to do.
1. Punctuality: Be on time. Don't be fashionably late, or take the arranged time to be a mere suggestion.
2. Hygiene: Shower, dress in clean clothes, and do all of the personal grooming that one does when preparing for a date.
3. Always show respect to both partners of the couple. You are being invited into the private life of a couple, not just the lady. This doesn't mean to kiss his ass... just talk to him, consider his wants and needs, too. And no, this doesn't mean to go bi, if that's not your thing.
4. Do not overstay your welcome. If the couple is looking at the clock, or yawning, or seem to be more interested in each other, it's probably time to go home.
5. Dispose of your own condoms.
6. Don't sit around waiting for someone to say "Ok, let's fuck." Be proactive. Flirt. But also,
7. Don't jump the gun. You may be in the house, but you're not yet in bed. Pay attention to body language. If the couple are carressing each other, chances are, it's time to make your move.
8. Orgasms are not a score card. It's not a win if you make her squirt anymore than it is a loss if you don't. It's not a game, and the only way a playdate is a win, is if it's fun for all involved.
9. Not all women want their pussy licked for hours on end. The clitoris is very sensitive and prolonged stimulation can become unpleasant, even painful. It's not about you, and your ego. Treat the lady right, and she'll take good care of you.
10. Thank the couple for inviting you over.
Well, that's our Top Ten bits of advice for the swinging single guy. We're sure that other members have advice they'd like to add.
Mr Luv, and Mrs Curves.

8 Nov 2014

best advice ever

20 Nov 2014

Well said Luvcurves

27 Nov 2014

"I've said this on a few threads now and I'll say it again, it all comes down to the pussy and what the pussy can put out. " Actually, a woman is more than a pussy. There are many, many other body parts she owns, including a brain. If you can engage the brain, the body usually follows. If a guy is all about the pussy, it can be a major turn off. I am not my pussy, and my pussy is not me. Talk to the face first

27 Nov 2014

"I am not my pussy, and my pussy is not me. Talk to the face first..." This is exactly what I mean. We are whole people... more than the sum of our parts.

16 Dec 2014

I think this is a great thread for a single male or even female to read and think about when you get invited to have a play. being invited into someone elses house to partake in a very intimate situation should be treated with respect and courtesy. I think if you want to be harsh, rude and treat the lady like a "fuck thing" go to a brothel!!

16 Dec 2014

Quote by R1KUD0
I think if you want to be harsh, rude and treat the lady like a "fuck thing" go to a brothel!!

I'm sure prostitutes don't want to be treated like that either.
If you want to be a rude and self-centered jerk, the only person you should go fuck is yourself.

16 Dec 2014

Quote by TemptedTwo
I think if you want to be harsh, rude and treat the lady like a "fuck thing" go to a brothel!!

I'm sure prostitutes don't want to be treated like that either.
If you want to be a rude and self-centered jerk, the only person you should go fuck is yourself.
you make a good point, i agree with you there