Advice for first MFM

I have in the very near future the chance to do my very first MFM. We have done MFMF and FMF but never MFM and I'm nervous to say the least but excited too. Any sensible advice?

hopefully you have two guys there who aren't going to freak out about accidental touching. If you've done a FFM then the rules are fairly similar. Decide whether you are all going to concentrate on one person, and if so, which person that is Or whether you will be 'tag teaming' it. Have a talk abot expectations from each of the three, find hard limits, etc

Quote by Haidee
hopefully you have two guys there who aren't going to freak out about accidental touching. If you've done a FFM then the rules are fairly similar. Decide whether you are all going to concentrate on one person, and if so, which person that is Or whether you will be 'tag teaming' it. Have a talk abot expectations from each of the three, find hard limits, etc

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the FMF was totally unexpected and the attention was not on me! (Mrs) that's the bit that's freaking me out is how to 'cope' with the attention, I am more of a giver than receiver when swinging so the roles are going to be reversed! The guy in question is experienced in MFM so I'm hoping he won't freak out if MM body parts do touch as honestly I don't get why men have to freak out, it's not like you are suddenly going to go and fuck them ffs. Anyway I am very excited to have the opportunity so I guess I will embrace it and take my time ?.

I absolutely get you  I'm more of a giver too. What you need to do is know what you are happy with and let your partners know, then just give yourself up to enjoy :) Decide before you start that you are going to be an attention hog and it's "All About You" just for once. Plenty of time to return favours later on in the night. Guys 'usually' need some recoup time a bit earlier than women, so as far as I'm concerned MMF makes much more sense than MFF - where sometimes one of the girls can feel a bit left out

I think its not too hard, if you do to the others what you would like them to do to you , you will not go far wrong and most importantly don' be frightened to speak out and let the others know what you like.

I'm sure you'll be fine.