The benefits of sharing, among others: 1) Spicy conversations and sex - We talk about sexual desires openly and we make them happen. No judgment, just action. Just talking about it leads to better, more frequent sex between us. 2) Emotional self-awareness - We both experience a wide range of emotions in this lifestyle. As a man, I am far more in touch with my emotions than in a boring, monogamous relationship. It creates...

My girlfriend asked what did I want for my birthday, my reply was to go to a swing party. at the time. She was not the adventurous type, worked for the State Government and always kept up appearances of being a respected person. My birthday arrived and she had organised to attend a swing party held for couples only, at a suburb fifteen kilometres away. At the time, I had no idea what was going on. I just drove and she gav...

The best part of the lifestyle is the honesty and trust we have developed with each other as partners, with no secrets between us, nothing is taboo or off limits as long as we discuss with each other first, this has led to us having some lifelong friends some wonderful pleasurable times and fulfilling our fantasies. Entering into this lifestyle a little later in life at the age of 40 has allowed me to grow so comfortable...

So, you’ve wanted to be a “Bull” and now you’ve found that perfect couple. She’s a Hotwife looking for a regular lover. He’s a cuckold (or wants to be) and he’s willing to step aside and let you and his wife become lovers. Now what? This is where the men get separated from the boys, pal. I have real experience with this. I’ve seen the best and the worst, of both people and experiences. I’ve also talked to others and share...

How to Have a Happy Open Marriage A few key steps to successfully opening a marriage Ppening a marriage is no easy feat. It takes communication, thought, and above all: so much love. How your decision to become polyamorous came about will vary greatly from couple to couple. There is no one-size-fits-all scenario. Whether you’ve been monogamous for the majority of your time together, are opening up after a stint in a close...

Why a man would want his wife to sleep with another man? Because I am proud of her and want others to validate that Because I enjoy knowing that other men find my wife attractive Because she has interest in improving her body and appearance as she dresses for other men, feeling sexy and desired Because I want to bring out the sexy and confident woman in hiding Because it’s all about her pleasure Because I enjoy viewing he...

Ground Rules Another day of Hotwifing advice and of course..your questions and stories is upon us. Today I am going to address the topic of Ground Rules. I have heard some major horror stories in the lifestyle from couples who swing and from couples who Hotwife and all due to this one most important topic. Due to the fact that there are 2 people involved in both lifestyles, you have to remember that feelings and emotions...

You Might Be A Swinger IF... 1. You are running out of reasons to tell your friends, family and coworkers why you can’t go out with them this weekend 2. You know most of your friends’ names only as couples (Rich and Joy, Frank and Jen) but you don’t know their last names 3. You go on vacation with three huge suitcases, yet are wearing the same outfit when you return as on you did when you left 4. You have already seen pic...