Hi, we are a happily married couple, however we have have had some challenges in our sex life for a very long time. 

I have had ongoing gynaecology issues for many many years, this has an impact  at times( not all the time, but frequently enough) on both my libido and also my physical ability to have  intercourse. I love my husband very much and hate disappointing him. He is sooo understanding, but he has needs. 

We have a very open line of communication when it comes to these issues and have always been open and honest with each other. We have tried many option within our own marriage, we have paid a sex worker once to join us, the idea being that she could do the things for him that I couldn't whilst I was still there with him, kissing and caressing him and participating as much as I could. I also engaged with the other woman fondling, caressing, using toys etc, I had never been with another woman before but I knew this was something my husband would enjoy seeing, and as it turned out I quite enjoyed it also. This worked quite well for us both, however it was not a financially viable option on a regular or even semi regular basis. 

So we are new to this scene, and I guess our story is a little different to most. We are not super models as you can see, but we are really genuine and caring people. We are looking for another woman to join us occasionally, to help me show my husband how much I love him. We have come across resistance from women based on a fear of me getting jealous or crazy about it all, but that is not a problem for us, as I am there with you, no secrets ? We are just a very ordinary everyday couple, both professionals, we require absolute discretion at all times and offer the same in return. 

So, if any of this makes sense to you, or you just want to know a bit more, please feel free to ask.