You're going to be amused by my eagerness (or maybe it's naivety) I bet.

I've only recently started exploring and learning about the lifestyle (read: just discovered the difference between MMF and MFM; FFM and FMF; soft and full swing; etc). But am confident enough now to act on some of the thoughts that have been in the back of my mind for a while. And this seems like a safe place to do that.

I'm intrigued. And get excited thinking about being with a man and woman at the same time.

I'm not sure exactly what appeals to me about it, and I might not even end up enjoying it. But the more I put off trying it, the more it occupies my mind.

I think I am drawn to three aspects of MMF and MFM:

Having to please someone (indirectly) by pleasuring someone else (or by being pleasured). And knowing that while we'll all be participating throughout, at some point someone might enjoy observing over participating—for a moment.

This is a additional element to a normal situation; it seems neat.

And of course, I wouldn't be here if I wasn't in some way attracted to men. Or thinking about what being in a situation involving another man might be like. (I've never explored, btw.)

But with that in mind, I like the idea of a sense of balance. The fact MMF and MFM still has a feminine element. Despite my inclination I couldn't be with a man by myself—sorry—that would just be too much for me. And if I wanted one-on-one with a girl: well; again there's no need to be here.

Discretion, cleanliness and honesty are important to me. But I'm sure that goes without saying.

Also: you don't need to be in a relationship. But if you are of course I'd want to respect that, and understand any boundaries you've set yourself. And if you're not, well I still think it's worth understanding why we're all participating.

This might all sound a bit vague, or maybe it seems too structured? I don't mean for that; and am really excited for the rush, the thrill, that I anticipate comes with this. And of course the fun!

A bit about me personally: 28 years old, advertising professional. I've managed to end up in a senior role involving a lot of travel, so the work-life balance doesn't always swing in my favour. But I enjoy it and it keeps my brain stimulated.

Despite the glitz and glam, and superficial nature of my industry I love the outdoors and try to keep life simple once I leave the office. Swim, kayak, cycle, Pilates. Bush walks. Photography. I'll happily while away an evening lazily with wine and conversation. Or cocktails and music late into the night.

I try to stay in shape—but no washboard abs here!