Great ideas!
We really like the hot tub idea, however there won't be one availabe where we're meeting
The massage could work, however I'm worried about the lack of kissing. She's ok with kissing anywhere except the lips (she wants that reserved for me.)
After talking some we're leaning toward the slowly undressing each other.
Next Saturday is the day! We're already pretty excited!
Taylar
I also like my sex with a little spice, but wouldn't going to such great, rather romantic lengths be seriously exposing your relationship to potential disaster?
Seems to me that a lady that is wooed (?) in such a romantic way could easily 'fall in love'?
Taylar
My wife and I have had one awesome experience and are ready to try again with the same person. The first time she was VERY nervous and unsure how to start so after we met for dinner we came up with the idea of having her blindfolded and ready in bed when he came way she was unsure of who was doing what, and didn't have to go through the ackwardness of undressing in front of him.
This time we will skip the blindfold but are still unsure of a good way to start. I also need to mention that kissing the other guy on the mouth is out.
Without the kissing, we don't know really how to get the ball rolling once he comes in the room.
Once everyone's undressed and in bed there's no problem, we would just like a good 'opening' strategy.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Taylor
We only played once when Mrs. Taylar was pregnant. It was with a long-time friend and his wife. There was no danger of harming the baby with STDs and our friend, who had never had sex with a pregnant woman, was able to answer a question that had been in his mind for ages.
Mrs. Taylar was about six months along and was starting to feel unattractive to other men. Our friend put that fear to rest!
His wife was a lovely black lady and a treat to play with.
All four enjoyed it very much and we've never regretted the evening. The four of us are still friends although they are divorced (Not related to swinging.) and live far apart.
Taylor