Hmm, my original text is gone so here goes...I am in a loving relationship with a man who has no libido and no desire to address that. I need physical love though, not just sex, but want no ties at all. Will not just screw the first offer I get as I would like at least some sort of connection to be there first. I am 56, look ok for my age but am larger than average so am quite shy about exposing my body so anyone that wishes for full on lights blazing sex should pass me by. I have a good sense of humour and am intelligent.