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raneen
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 56
Straight Male, 56
0 km · Western Australia
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no but i found out she cheat on me and im deciding what to do
should i stay or should i go
we swing with a man in the past but she doesnt want to find a bifemalwe and share me..
think she the jealous type or just wont tell me she doesnt want me to have fun.....
she tell me all the time that she is going to find us a female but never happens i look at the instant messangwer and all i see are male screen name no female im wondering what to do
Communication. You will see this through virtually all replies. You have to continuously communicate with your wife and vise versa. We have found that to be a great benifit to our relationship of course the mind blowing sex is the cherry on top.
Our first time, we (the other couple included) went very slow. They didn't want to put us off. We were very respectful of the boundries set, you have to determine them... through communicating with your wife. Like Pepper & Drew said, it felt natural. It was great and afterward it continues to spark our intimacy with eachother. Remember to go at the pace of your wife or vice versa. Its a wonderful experience... but you both need to decide.
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We prefer this method as most people become comfortable in this situation. When we have guests over we'll ask them (never been turned down yet) if they would like to use the hot tub with us. They can either use the bathroom to disrobe or do it right in front of us. Once they are in the tub 90% of you is covered by water so you're still beng risky but completely covered. If hands begin to venture all the better.
My fantasy for a long time has been to watch my fiance have sex with another guy. It wouldn't matter to me if I were there to watch or for her to go out and video tape it and surprise me. The problem is that she isn't sure if she wants to do this, but it seems like she wants to make me happy. From reading this site, I've noticed that my fantasy isn't an uncommon one. What can I do to get her to see that it isn't cheating and help her fulfill my fantasy?
