I believe that you have to be up front and truthful; so I am a married guy and follow children my wife’s sex drive has fallen away, whereas mine has never changed. So our answers it that I can seek sex outside the marriage and so long as there is no impact on our marriage, she does not have to get involved and there is no commitment. I know this is not for everyone; but it works for us. 

So I am looking for a “friend or friends with benefits“. I am respectful, discrete and always willing to please and try new things. Would be great to meet people in similar situation and happy to meet up first for a drink and chat.