hello...I'm just new to this and I am testing the waters.

I like younger guys (25-50 Caucasian and single and tall) however it all comes down to who you connect with and who I am attracted too. I am just looking for fun and laughs and to step outside my comfort zone. I'm looking for a guy who is well groomed, neat and tidy appearance and does not have an odour offensive to my nose. No smokers please, its awful to kiss an ashtray... CLEAN! Attractive, good looking. Who can string a sentence together without being sleazy. I know why we are all here, but there is no need for nasty demeaning language, its all about respect and honesty.

I'm looking for a friend with benefits, someone to enjoy a chat over coffee, a drink or to see a movie, and have sex with when the urge strikes. I'm into cuddles afterwards, so if you are the type to dress and leave after the deed is none, I'm not interested.

Connection and chemistry is important, therefore I always meet for a coffee just to see if we like each other. words on a page are easy, its the personality, heart and soul that holds my fascination. I'm independent and work full time and have a fairly full social life, however I don't come across many men hence why I am here.

At this stage I am only looking for one on one with a straight single man. No married men please, and no couples. Only interested in single men around the CBD, anything further is pointless. Not interested in married men engaging in extra martial affairs. I know I said that twice now, but some people just don't get it...

I'm not waiting around for a man to save me, cos I'm happy where I am. I don't depend on a guy to vaildate me, I don't need to be anyone's baby. I don't need another half to make me whole. make your move if you want, doesn't mean I will or I won't, I'm free to make my mind up, you either got it or you don't... I don't need to be on somebody's arm to look good, I like who I am. I'm not saying I don't want to fall in love cos I would with the right guy. I'm not going to get hooked up just cos you say I should...

I'm honest and respectful. Laid back but don't suffer fools. Strong willed but soft and sensitive. I love to laugh and enjoy life.