Hello, I like to chat with interesting people who are tolerant and respectful. My interest lies more in sensual BDSM. 

I prefer to be approached in nice conversation, even if theres no chemistry, as I would like to make friends with people in the scene and get to know others. 

Please have a face or enough of a profile photo that you can share to show you are real. I am sorry but do not want to deal with profiles saying straight male, as I do not tolerate deception when you try to approach me with a sexual agenda. Would love to talk to women who are older or near to my age and make friends with.

I dont mind having a chat to men around my age or younger, but please be respectful, thank you for your compliments in messages or you speak to me in chat, please try to be engaging as it becomes difficult with the usual 'hi hru, i like your pics'. Talk about yourself, what you're looking for and why you are interested in contacting me.

I dont mind making friends with couples, but if its only ever the male .. its highly likely you are not approaching as a couple. I’ve also heard all the reasons about why the fairer sex in your relationship isn’t involved on the site and I don’t buy it. If only male of the two is active on here I am really not interested in doing any more than saying hello.

I do not appreciate being directed in chat to do things on cam, simply dont do it thanks.

It would be good to make more friends with women on SH socially as I do find the majority of the time its just men who make contact with me. I can be engaging to chat with and have a shy personality so would appreciate getting a hello in chat or a nice email.