I am a single girl in her early 40's who is incredibly busy and career driven. I don't often have much spare time, and when I do it's mostly spent exercising. So the purpose of being on here is to find someone without the time spent going out and meeting someone.

Important - due to my employment, my privacy is very important to me.

What I'm preferably looking for is a single younger male (early 20's) who is able to meet at a hotel in the city in the evening, during the week or weekends, for a meet up. I'm not looking for a "one-off" but an on-going thing. He will need to look after himself well.

I sometimes see females, when the feeling is right, so I'm open to that too, but it's not too often and it would need to be for the right person. Given this, I am also open to couples.