Totally new at this, and unsure what to say or do, so please guide me along and be patient.

Am a middle age guy who keeps reasonably active.

Am single, outgoing and adventurous wanting to find some ladies or couples (no guy on guy) for outings and intimate encounters.

have a thing for small breasts, not into large breasts at all.

want to meet over coffee first and see if there is anything there first, as would like to create something regular.