Attached male living in a non physical relationship. Children and finances make it financially impossible to end this just now. It wasn't always like this but it is just so damn frustrating that I am now making an effort to find a lady who understands and wants to be my lover and casual friend so I can maintain some kind of sanity and physical needs. Hopefully those ladies who respond will know all to well themselves what I am talking about and needs the same.

I am fit of average build and still get some admiring glances from middle aged women when I am out. This is quite flattering but I have not been able to act on the attention as I am usually working. I'd love to plan something and enjoy building a friendship with an enthusiastic lady who understands.