It would be better if you did not go to a bar (unless you were going to use condoms for everything and you found a guy that was cool with the idea). Having a fantasy come true would be nice but practicality and reality is another thing. You are much better off meeting guys you know are cool with the idea and that you know for sure are clean. At a bar you wont get a chance to know if they're happy with this situation or if they're safe or not. On a web site you can at least organise to meet up with a few guys who you know are keen for your fantasy, Then once you find the right guy, make sure he is diease free. But its up to you. :grin:
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dayvie
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 52
0 km · New South Wales
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I,ve been doing a little research into STD infection. It seems that using Condoms is really only effective against certain types of STD. I was shocked and surprised to find that there are very nasty diseases that can be spread through Oral sex and skin to skin contact aswell! Diseases such as Herpes, Chancroid, Syphliss etc. A lot of these diseases show very little to no signs of infection and can cause permanent damage!!:sad:
Here are some sites that I strongly recommend everyone look at
The info I provided before was not fully accurate (I did say ask your GP though). Having a small group of known disease free sex partners (who get regularly tested) is really the best option and I found this in all the above mentioned web sites.
Get Sex partners to provide documented evidence, don't just take their word for it and check your partners for infection as well if you really want to be safe. Signs of infection even show up inside the mouth
After looking at the above websites I would be getting all my sex partners to have a checkup!! Now Im not sure if I want to play anymore :und:
BE VERY CAREFUL EVERYONE
Here are some sites that I strongly recommend everyone look at
The info I provided before was not fully accurate (I did say ask your GP though). Having a small group of known disease free sex partners (who get regularly tested) is really the best option and I found this in all the above mentioned web sites.
Get Sex partners to provide documented evidence, don't just take their word for it and check your partners for infection as well if you really want to be safe. Signs of infection even show up inside the mouth
After looking at the above websites I would be getting all my sex partners to have a checkup!! Now Im not sure if I want to play anymore :und:
BE VERY CAREFUL EVERYONE
Thanks for the info!!!
Very glad to have been some help. I saw another posting though, saying that saliva and skin could also be susceptible to infection. If the skin is unbroken (with the exception of Herpes). I think this may be inaccurate. Keep in mind though if there has been any anal penitration and infected semen comes into contact with this region, contracting HIV will almost me inevitable (because the skin is broken during anal sex). Saliva could really only spread HEP A and HEP B (which is why I got vaccinated and so should you).
But I am no expert, ask your doctor to be sure.
I hope you have a safe and fulfilling sex life.
Also if you're ever down my way look us up. :laugh:
But seriously I might be fun!
Very glad to have been some help. I saw another posting though, saying that saliva and skin could also be susceptible to infection. If the skin is unbroken (with the exception of Herpes). I think this may be inaccurate. Keep in mind though if there has been any anal penitration and infected semen comes into contact with this region, contracting HIV will almost me inevitable (because the skin is broken during anal sex). Saliva could really only spread HEP A and HEP B (which is why I got vaccinated and so should you).
But I am no expert, ask your doctor to be sure.
I hope you have a safe and fulfilling sex life.
Also if you're ever down my way look us up. :laugh:
But seriously I might be fun!
PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS!!!
HIV is passed on through the transmission of bodily fluids. Bodily fluids such as blood, semen and (on rare occasions) vaginal fluids. Having unprotected sex is the best way for a woman to catch HIV or any other STD from a man carrying such a disease. Men have a lesser risk of catching HIV from women (but can still catch it), unless they are uncircumcised. Oral sex carries less risk than vaginal or anal sex. Unprotected anal sex carries the highest risk of any sexual act for contracting any STD. Hep C is much the same in contageousness as HIV.
There are plenty of other nasty STD's aswell, but if caught early (with the exception of Herpes) can be treated successfully.
The best way to prevent contracting HIV or any other STD is by using a condom (and pray the fucking thing doesn't break!!!). You could also make sure all sexual partners are disease free and have fun with the same clean people.
To ensure your sexual partners are disease free you have to get to know them well and trust they will not have unprotected sex with people they don't know are clean. Then all people in the group have a blood test straight away (if you have not already had one), use condoms in the mean time, then wait for at least three months and have another blood test. All people should have copies of blood test results and If the coast is clear after this for everyone then the only thing you have to worry about is unwanted pregnancy (unless your using birth control). New people would have to follow the same steps also and obviously they would have to use condoms until the all clear (if they're worth waiting for ;))
In any case (especially if something strange or painful is happening with your nethers)ask your doctor(don't be embarrised, he/she wont tell anyone!). Your doctor may also be able to give you additional advice.
