Warming the Bed
Once played with a lady who squirted, and squirted, and squirted. She was apologetic when she told me too, wtf? Very erotic, and lots of fun. Was soaking wet, as was the bed, as a result.
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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 63
Bi-curious Female, 57
0 km · Australian Capital Territory
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Warming the Bed
We're way too old for you and way too far away, but we don't let people down. We believe good manners are a life skill. Hope you find some reliable people to play with.
J&E
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In our experience, larger ladies are lovely. We've met some very confident, very sexy and very beautiful women who know how to enjoy themselves.
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Hi. Great to see you have posted here because I sure many many can relate. Everyone was new once and first impressions make a huge impact on whether you want to explore further.
Firstly, everyone's experiences differ so this is just one opinion. We have met some wonderful people this way. Most are open minded, funny, caring and great fun. As grown ups it is often tricky to make friends so consider this a short cut.
Most important thing is your relationship so discuss some rules and boundaries before hand. For example we like to meet before even deciding to play, play only together, condom friendly, don't want unannounced visitors etc etc.
For us we enjoy watching each other have fun, you need to separate sex as a physical thing not emotional (tougher for girls). Also, there has to be some connection for both of you and the other the other couple. Sometimes if things don't progress it may not have anything to do with you so don't take it personally.
Two things I would like to add (Mrs here) guys do tend to get performance anxiety more than ladies and alcohol makes it worse and often leads to a non event, and secondly we have been surprised that the ladies here are often the extroverts and rarely being oppressed.
Some people are up for quickies, some for friendship, some bullshit and pretend to be couples when they aren't. Set up a chat account like MSN, come up with some net names and make sure you don't work together.
Oh and HAVE FUN! Trust gut feelings too!
Well that's my 5 cents worth. We are Canberra based but happy to chat if you want to PM us
E&J
Warming the Bed
Hi. Great to see you have posted here because I sure many many can relate. Everyone was new once and first impressions make a huge impact on whether you want to explore further.
Firstly, everyone's experiences differ so this is just one opinion. We have met some wonderful people this way. Most are open minded, funny, caring and great fun. As grown ups it is often tricky to make friends so consider this a short cut.
Most important thing is your relationship so discuss some rules and boundaries before hand. For example we like to meet before even deciding to play, play only together, condom friendly, don't want unannounced visitors etc etc.
For us we enjoy watching each other have fun, you need to separate sex as a physical thing not emotional (tougher for girls). Also, there has to be some connection for both of you and the other the other couple. Sometimes if things don't progress it may not have anything to do with you so don't take it personally.
Two things I would like to add (Mrs here) guys do tend to get performance anxiety more than ladies and alcohol makes it worse and often leads to a non event, and secondly we have been surprised that the ladies here are often the extroverts and rarely being oppressed.
Some people are up for quickies, some for friendship, some bullshit and pretend to be couples when they aren't. Set up a chat account like MSN, come up with some net names and make sure you don't work together.
Oh and HAVE FUN! Trust gut feelings too!
Well that's my 5 cents worth. We are Canberra based but happy to chat if you want to PM us
E&J
Warming the Bed
Try inviting your potential new friend for a chat over coffee or a drink. When you get there, talk about anything apart from sex. For example, what did they do over the Christmas break? Once you're all comfortable, ask if they've had much success online on the web site. This approach has worked a treat for us.
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Hi
We'll be staying in a city hotel in Sydney on 22 and 23 January ans we're looking for couples similar to us to meet and play with. Check out our profile and, if interested, please message us. Thanks.
E&J
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Thinking about spending a couple of days at River Island naturist resort in the new year and will be looking for some fun while there. Anyone from here likely to be there between about 5 and 10 January?
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We're booked on a cruise in the New Year from Sydney to Vanuatu leaving on January 12. Anyone from here going on Royal Carribean at the same time. ;-) If so, let us know.
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Our two cents worth... Like the others so far, we're not sure what being 'professional' means in the swinging context. Does professional mean having a degree in accountancy or law or medicine and working in that field? We're not sure. If so, so what?
While we've met some professional people, we've also had some exceptionally good times with mature age uni students, people who owned their own businesses, tradies, public servants, and Emily especially liked the company of a firefighter we met a little while ago. Surely people are a lot more than simply what they do for a living?
The other thing we like is the number of 'professional' people who can't seem to spell professional correctly. If you can't spell it correctly, you can't be it surely?
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''Really like your profile, why don't you drop by and have a look at mine, and let me know what you think.'' Is it just us, or are other people entirely over the total lack of imagination that this un-original, overused opening line delivers? Come on folks, use a bit of imagination when saying 'hello'for the first time.
