Firstly I'm just not interested in men under 45 so don't waste your time sending me a wink or message..it will get binned.

Hi.... Not after multiple men. Not after e mails saying "wanna fuck" - I will ignore you! Not after married men. Not after "discreet NSA"

If you are after the above, that's fine and I hope you find the woman for you - it's just not me.

If it takes me months to find what I want - then so be it... its not the be all and end all of my life. I am happy to just use this site purely for my voyeuristic pleasure.

I'm not a skinny woman. I'm overweight yes... so if that offends you or turns you off, then move on to the next profile. Each to their own. Look at my pictures and you can get a rough idea on my size. Not huge, just cuddly

The only reason I make a point of discussing it here, is so we all know where we stand.

I love kissing... nothing better and nothing more sensual. When two people can connect through kissing, every nerve ending exploding. When I can feel myself getting wet... hmm that's I'm looking for.

I'm open to experimenting, exploring each others wants and desires. The possibility's..... think about it ?