Fit down to earth guy, who wants to meet people, ( couples , singles) who enjoy entertaining/ being entertained,  like fine wine, good food, and great conversation. Don't  you just love it when you meet new people, and you find over the course of the evening, the ebb and flow of conversations had,  have been interesting/stimulating/challenging/humorous? These are good evenings, but if the chemistry is right and the evening ends in lustful ,lewd, licentiousness, decadent, debauchery, then these become the great ,memorable evenings.