ok here I go I have been married since I was 21 and my wife was 18, I am the only guy she has been with so she tells me and I have no reason to not belive her, I have spoken to her about swinging or having a threesome, I told her another male would be ok, she thinks I do not mean it but in my mind this is all about her, she will not go to a swingers club so I am woundering if there are any places that swingers go to meet, pubs or clubs that couples go to, my wife has said to me if it is to happen it would just be a spur of the moment thing, so over to the expurts, I hope you will not be too hard on me