***Couples only please***
We're a fun couple (in our own opinions lol), who are still happily married after 20 years. We spent many years talking together regarding taking our relationship to a new level before getting the guts to take the first step. We have read extensively on the subject of monogamy, consensual non-monogamy and polyamory and found the topic extremely interesting and exciting. We went to our first club for a look NYE 2013. Despite our nervousness on that first visit, we were really impressed by the empowerment of women compared to the general meat market of a night club. Interestingly, we've found that many of the "firsts" we've experienced regarding this lifestyle can be a bit nervous and then the second time it's like "meh, done this before, we're veterans." :)

We prefer to meet up before anything progresses where possible to make sure we have some sort of connection and we click. In the case of more longer distance couples, we can have a couple of the "electronic" meets to make sure the e-connection is there before the road trip. :) If either of us can't hold a decent and fun conversation, we should probably move along. We are not the droids you are looking for. We are D&D free and like it that way. 

We don't have any dick pics or colonoscopy photos for you. Discretion is a must for us. Face pics are in our private gallery for those who we've organised meetups. If you have a pic for us, we find photos of couples in day to day huggy, smiley shots in combination with sexy lingerie shots which titillate the fantasy as our preference. We don't mind if you have the anatomy lessons in your gallery but be creative and mix it up with some allure and sensuality. Please understand that we are simply trying to give you tips which will make us consider your profile more seriously instead of filing it in the electronic glory hole bucket. We would hate to miss out on meeting an awesome couple because we moved on from your profile too quickly. 

He - Sometimes grows a beard but then shaves it off every 4-8 weeks then lets it grow back. So if you have a preference for or dislike of beards, this can be gladly accommodated. (is that called a beardstral cycle? lol)  We will always arrive at meet ups, have the courtesy to call you if running late or life intrudes and expect the same. We will not meet up with only one partner in a couple. Even if we have driven 200km to meet you and get a message at the last second to say that your partner will not be there, we will turn the car around and have an awesome time together drinking coffee somewhere. 

We only play "same room" never alone. This is a shared experience for us and there are so many more interesting options with four of us. Verified profiles have an obvious fast track to the front of our list. Note: Photos in our public gallery were taken July 2014 onwards. (i.e. all recent)