I have learnt that this, like all things in life, is whatever you make it. One can choose to focus on negative experiences or lighten up and have some fun! Like everyone else, I have a choice as to how I spend my time, therefore, I don't consider anything I choose to do a waste, simply an experience. Time spent on Swingers Heaven talking to all different types of people is one such experience.
I have also learnt that apostrophes are sometimes thrown into the most random words!!