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ReadyAndWaiting
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
0 km · Adelaide
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Not going to be a problem at all. My girlfriend and I went to a swingers club for the first time recently and she got the best reaction because of her curvaceous figure, especially her ass. There's as much variety in size as there is in taste. I'm BBW exclusive so I'm biased, but you'll find a welcoming response at a swingers club. For any who don't... forget 'em.
I mentioned to a lady friend of mine that we'll soon be getting an adult cinema again in Adelaide (hooray!) and asked if she'd be interested in coming along. She made the point that for many women, herself especially, it crosses the line from intimidating to frightening. A companion who can be trusted to double as a bodyguard seems to be what she needs, as the fear of 'centre of attention' (which could be fun) becoming 'centre of unwanted attention' is too great.
We've all read recently of an ugly incident down at Maslins which drives this point home.
While any ladies who do attend the cinema would be very welcome, I don't expect them to be alone, and we'd all hope that other patrons would act respectfully. Although I'm sure that the scum are rare enough that they'd be 'persuaded' to leave quietly by the rest of us
I do hope to visit this place soon enough, and just maybe find a lovely couple to admire at the same time. Here's hoping that the return of an adult cinema to our fair city brings adult fun in it's wake.
We've all read recently of an ugly incident down at Maslins which drives this point home.
While any ladies who do attend the cinema would be very welcome, I don't expect them to be alone, and we'd all hope that other patrons would act respectfully. Although I'm sure that the scum are rare enough that they'd be 'persuaded' to leave quietly by the rest of us
I do hope to visit this place soon enough, and just maybe find a lovely couple to admire at the same time. Here's hoping that the return of an adult cinema to our fair city brings adult fun in it's wake.
I have to admit I expected you to give dogging a miss in the future after such an horrific time. Remember though there's always the opportunity to find the right people with whom to have some private and respectful fun. And you're in the right place to find such swingers.
Best of luck as you move on, and I think you've reminded us that the dogging scene we love so much is in need of constant monitoring. Perhaps if real doggers left Maslins alone we wouldn't continue to encourage scum like this. Or perhaps I'm being too optimistic.
Definitely something you should approach together, with complete honesty, and glacial care. Do not rush into this fantasy at all, because the reality of watching the woman you love with another man is much more than physical. She's not just giving him her body, she's baring her sexuality to him, sharing pleasures with him. And unless you're both 100% prepared then jealousy will kick in well before they've finished.
Because what she's sharing with him is what you thought was special and unique to yourselves, and now some bastard is moving in on your girl! And she's loving it!!
That's just a hint of what it might feel like. At worst it can destroy your relationship. I've seen it happen once before I'm sad to say. They both wanted to play a bit, but they were both under 25 and had only been together about a year. You can see where this is heading. Spontaneity can be a good thing, but not in cases like this. Just picking up a playmate didn't work out for them at all.
In my own case with my previous girlfriend we had a lot of fantasies and lots of magnificent dirty talk. But we knew that only one or two could ever come to fruition, we were realistic. And a threesome with another man did happen, more than once, and we both loved it. But it was discussed and planned for almost two years before we went through with it, and the third man carefully chosen. We had a good idea what we were getting into, we'd covered all our bases, we were very stable in our relationship (can't overemphasise the importance of that bit) and we were both in agreement about exactly what we wanted to happen.
If you and your lady are both serious about this, keep talking about it and seeing if there's anything which might make you feel jealous. Turn it into a regular pillow talk fantasy, discuss different scenarios, think it through. If there's a twinge of doubt for either of you, bring it up immediately and talk it through because it may be the unforeseen fly in the ointment. Only when it all seems to be a natural progression for you should you take that next step.
And might I suggest a better setting for the first experience? It sounds great on paper (or the monitor as the case may be) but some time in a private place to get to know each other intimately and be more affectionate will make the experience much nicer. And yes that affection which your lady must feel for, and share with, another man is The Big One which you personally have to come to terms with before even beginning to search for the right person.
A threesome can actually be a very sweet experience which bonds you both together over a special shared moment, not many people think of it as romantic but it was for us. Do it right and you have unique memories to share when you're together and relive in your dirty talk.
Breathe calmly, talk it through, play act. Repeat. It will happen when you both want it to.
Because what she's sharing with him is what you thought was special and unique to yourselves, and now some bastard is moving in on your girl! And she's loving it!!
That's just a hint of what it might feel like. At worst it can destroy your relationship. I've seen it happen once before I'm sad to say. They both wanted to play a bit, but they were both under 25 and had only been together about a year. You can see where this is heading. Spontaneity can be a good thing, but not in cases like this. Just picking up a playmate didn't work out for them at all.
In my own case with my previous girlfriend we had a lot of fantasies and lots of magnificent dirty talk. But we knew that only one or two could ever come to fruition, we were realistic. And a threesome with another man did happen, more than once, and we both loved it. But it was discussed and planned for almost two years before we went through with it, and the third man carefully chosen. We had a good idea what we were getting into, we'd covered all our bases, we were very stable in our relationship (can't overemphasise the importance of that bit) and we were both in agreement about exactly what we wanted to happen.
If you and your lady are both serious about this, keep talking about it and seeing if there's anything which might make you feel jealous. Turn it into a regular pillow talk fantasy, discuss different scenarios, think it through. If there's a twinge of doubt for either of you, bring it up immediately and talk it through because it may be the unforeseen fly in the ointment. Only when it all seems to be a natural progression for you should you take that next step.
And might I suggest a better setting for the first experience? It sounds great on paper (or the monitor as the case may be) but some time in a private place to get to know each other intimately and be more affectionate will make the experience much nicer. And yes that affection which your lady must feel for, and share with, another man is The Big One which you personally have to come to terms with before even beginning to search for the right person.
A threesome can actually be a very sweet experience which bonds you both together over a special shared moment, not many people think of it as romantic but it was for us. Do it right and you have unique memories to share when you're together and relive in your dirty talk.
Breathe calmly, talk it through, play act. Repeat. It will happen when you both want it to.
