We are new to this, we want to explore together. We're open to trying new things, but looking to get to know our playmates beforehand.  This is so we can talk about boundaries and limits, become comfortable with each other and better enjoy the experience, then maybe even do it again!  We work full time and have kids, so we expect (and will give) discretion and will need some time to plan get-togethers.  Our preference is to find a couple.